I don't know if you've seen the "high value man" clips (basically a guy takes calls from women wanting to get advice about how to find better men but then he's just an asshole to them), but the term has always made me chuckle. So, tongue in cheek, I come to you as a high value sub. Ready and willing to dive in and never come back up for air.

Let me get the basics out of the way. No, I don't live in my mom's basement. I'm a real person with real ambitions and real things going for me. I have a PhD in a hard science, and work in both academia and consulting settings. I love what I do, and I've worked very hard to get where I'm at. Apart from the simple pride that I have in my profession, it's provided me a certain level of life stability and social status in my profession circles. I say it not to brag, but just to help you understand where I come from. I'm confident, I spend my days being in charge of the people around me, and am respected in the way that I usually get what I want. I've been accused of being intimidating to some, and I'd be lying if I didn't enjoy that complex just a little.

But here is the real secret. When it comes to sex, women, and intimacy, I yearn for someone to put me in my place. Get me on my knees, smack my ass, and call my names. I get weak in the knees just thinking about it. In many ways, it's the only way that I feel real fulfilment in any interaction. I've not only given up on vanilla dating, I'm not sure dating is for me at all. What I'm left with is the carnal need to submit to a woman who sees herself as also high value, in the many ways that can be defined.

So there you have it. I'm a influential and well connected man who can't go another day without having a dominate woman take the keys to my life. Whether casual, deeply intimate, or a mix of both, I have to find it. If that resonates with you, please, don't leave me in agony.

A bit more about me: white and of average height with good build. Former power lifter. Well dressed and groomed. I tie my own ties and everything. Living in a major west coast city in the US. Typical man's-man personality (love sports, sketchy takeout, never asks for directions). I also write and love to read, have been known to frequent the theater. I won't exhaust a kink list here, but I love light humiliation, orgasm control, and pushing myself.

You may wonder if you're someone I would be interested in, so here is a few categories you may fall into and a brief response from me:

-I'm around your age: Great! I love a little pre-mid life match up. I love driven women that have been through some of the struggles that I also have these past few years across work and education. Maybe you relate to it? Or not? Either way, I'm sure we have common ground.

-I'm younger than you: Also great! There is something very forbidden to me about a younger domme. If you have the hot professor itch, maybe this is for you! I ask that you be at least 21, mature, and understand that I'm not chronically online and may need help with some of your references.

-I'm older than you: You guessed it, great! Maturity and experience are sexy, especially in this space. It lends itself easily to a dynamic, have no reservations, regardless if you're 35 or 65, I'd love to hear from you.

-I'm not white: It sucks that I've run into some women who have encountered racism online from people who feel like it's something that they can get away with due to the anonymity, but know that I embrace everyone! Where ever you are from and whatever background you have, I think good dommes can be found in many shapes and sizes.

-I'm a findomme: I respect it and know that it's a set up that works for some people, just not for me. The moment a financial component is introduced, the attraction and drive falls through the floor. If I wanted to find a woman who wanted me for my money, I could of found that by now.

-I'm in a relationship: Find by me, it's your conscious we're dealing with. I'm open minded to anyone who wants to do this in a real and is will to put in the effort. I'm remaining open minded!

-I'm a 45 year old Indian man trying to scam you: Not that open minded.

Mention a fruit in you reply so I know that you're paying attention. I can't wait to hear from you! I'll be waiting more-or-less patiently.... on my knees.