Hello.

What I am looking for in a play dymanic is someone who is serious about taking on a submissive role and finds personal fulfillment in it. A man who is comfortable enough with his sexuality and preferences to be directly honest and transparent about what hes looking for and prefers. I would like to keep my Dominatrix private practice to 1v1. I would love to try and explore what I can only with a very select few but experience the highest quality attepted in that dynamic.

My focus is on someone who could and chooses my specific needs with my sensory issues when it comes to play. I am a late-diagnosed autistic woman and prefer not to be touched and struggle with being overstimulated. Oral and penitration is off the table.

My style of being a Dom can be compared to being primarily nurturing. I do not take the title of Motherly and actually want to avoid that style of dynamic. That said, I don't want to be strongly labeled as a soft Domme because I am Masochistic myself and understand pain is sometimes needed for happiness. I title myself as a pleasure and service domme and find great enjoyment in giving their preferences. I do know the types I unconsciously attract and are actively looking for submissive men who share in the same amount of being a greater giver than receiver, like myself.

Potentially contraversially, I confide in BDSM as a therapeutic practice for myself. I strive to find someone who is on the same page about enjoying the play as a comfortable exchange of power and that level of trust. I want to focus more on in-person than online.

Petplay
I am prioritizing a partner who would enjoy a lot of the SFW style of powerplay. I feel most comfortable with my own dominance when my partner is in the role of a pet. I don't have any desired specifications on which they choose (pet) but would prefer, already have their preferred gear. I do not train someone into pet play. You will have to find your own expression of it because it's a type of submissive mentality. Pet play is more for roleplay and an opportunity to help or guide while in submissive headspace when navigating play. What we've agreed and laid out for the scene prior. I want to keep petplay private and do not enjoy any public play. I take collaring seriously and am open to negociating petplay dynamics.

Medical Kinks
I have medical fetishes I would enjoy going more in depth with. I deeply enjoy supporting urethra play and prostate massages as examples. Medical play has always been a strong fetish for me. I enjoy taking the time to set up scenes. Chasitiy, milking, and ass training. I enjoy focusing on male anayomy as the primary focus of my pleasure-domme tendencies.

Meeting
I don't drive and prefer to keep my location a secret until we became a lot more comfortable with wanting to meet in person. I heavily vet people to ensure there is a lot more to the connection than just a causal encounter. Take emotional and mental wellbeing seriously. You could expect play to take server weeks to months to ensure a secure connection.

My Submissive
Choosing a sub for me is not taken lightly. I plan to have a connection without any planned or intended end. I want to build and cherish a long-standing bond. I work hard to ensure both parties are heard and understood. If you could message me with the tag looking for mistress in the message, this will directly tell me you're actually reading what I wrote. I prefer to slowly adapt to the lifestyle choices while actively challenging myself to the definishion of what a dynamic and truly means for me.

I personally don't try to prioritize physical attractiveness because its subjective. I will mention that health is very important to me to have high hygienic practices. I value diet and exercise, not for just aesthetics but to help with endurance with scenes. I like all body types but lean towards men with bulk. I would like to pick the sub I feel the most attracted to too much, both mentally and emotionally.

I am a brunette woman, 5'5, 140lbs. I choose to dress moderately goth. I collect plants. My Cat's name is Catrick Stewart. I was a gifted art student and really enjoy tea. I am reserved, quiet and have a strong British sense of humour. I do get tired a lot and have issues with insomnia, so my hours are more or less unpredicable.

- Yours.

Mada