Hello

Read on, if you are really looking for a longterm commitment that will require some time and commitment from both sides. Move on, if you are a horny twenty-something just looking for someone to get you off before post nut sobriety and shame makes you delete your account.

Still here? Great.

A few general key facts about me: * I’m 48, reasonably attractive (salt’n’pepper hair and beard, 5’10, muscular normal weight), professionally successful (own company, a degree, part time teaching at an university) and I while I don’t own a yacht or helicopter (no sorry, I’m not your Mr. Grey), I’m financially well off. * I’m in a relationship and I don’t mind if you are as well. * I’m in Europe but usually available at odd hours also - I had long time relationships with folks from the US. It worked.

About me and D/s: * I’ve been a Dom before I knew that this was a thing - it was the 90s and there was no internet. * My baseline kinks were always around control as well as training and (important) corruption. * I have solid experience - mostly in real life but also online. * I think that D/s is a mutual agreement of two persons who represent two sides of a coin. I don’t think that Doms are some kind of wizard and I also don’t use D/s as a way to treat a woman like a doormat while getting laid. * I also think that this should be fun for both parties. In the end it’s about fantasies, instincts and sex and not some kind of occultism. * I had solid and good long term arrangements before. Mostly, they started in person and became unsustainable during Covid.

My darker sides: I mentioned corruption already. I am attracted to subs that have a darker side as well (broken ones to the front) and are looking for someone who teaches them and enables them while making sure that they don’t totally fuck up their lives. Consequently this means, that I want to be the one who makes you do the things you were afraid to ask for. I’m also caring, yet emotionally sadistic. I want to talk you wet and make you cry.

Kinks - and there are way more but they depend on the context: Control, mentorship and corruption, clothing control, orgasm control, free use and sharing, humiliation & degradation, good conversations and also affection.

So this is me - obviously I am looking for someone who matches my vibe and is willing to try this out. I won’t Dom you right away, so don’t ‘Sir’ or ‘Daddy’ me just now. Let’s first get to know each other.

Thank’s for reading.