Greetings Human!

Disclaimer

i do have previous sexual trauma, that might come up and make it so i need a break from scenes

Introduction

My name is Ithuriel: i am a 20 yr old genderfuckery (genderqueer / fluid & amab (if that matters to you)) from germany, and in a open poly relationship with multiple people

i am a compsci student, however i would say my knowledge in most STEM topics is decent, and i always love to learn more. i enjoy going for runs, hiking through the alps (when i am in the area), and i can't dance to save my life, but i love doing it anyways. in private i enjoy reading (fantasy), playing video games (RPGs, and strategy games ofc minecraft) and working on my own computer related projects. i am 1.85m tall and 110 kg heavy (working on lowering that), i have long light brown hair and multicolored eyes (not heterochromia, where the two eyes are seperate colors, but each of my eyes is different color gradient from brown through green and blue to gray). sometimes wear glasses (more often contacts), and i tend to wear more masc clothes (button ups and suit pants) styled in a more androgynous / femme way.

What i offer

if you had me narrow it down i would say i identify as a controlling service dom (enjoy making my subs feel good and fulfilled with my control), however i am not super experienced (not inexperienced mind you, i just didn't spend 20 years already with the lifestyle (only 2 yrs of owning people) on that note i am pretty flexible with my kinks (depends on what the other person enjoys) broadly speaking i love pet or slave/pet dynamics where i am the clear superior and my word is law. ofc that also means i love taking care of my pets and praising them letting them know they are the most special slaves in the world. I also have a sadistic side, so if you can appreciate a good bit of pain thats a plus ;)

What i am looking for

Well mostly someone to match my brainworms, but more specifically someone in my age bracket (so 18-25) who enjoys giving up control. Most of my kinks center around that aspect, so if you aren't willing or able to let somebody tell you how you can orgasm, what clothes you'll wear, or what to do, i am probably not the right dom for you. Of course i don't expect you to be willing to do that right away, i firmly believe that trust should be earned, and that this type of dynamic requires lots of trust. Besides that a high sex drive, or being easily turned on would be beneficial, since i am definitely on the high end when it comes to sex drive. And most important of all: i am not just looking for a cum and run, i want to be able to talk to you outside of scenes and play with you repeatedly, since the interpersonal aspect is really important to me. Also, while i have no preference for gender, other Queer people are strongly preferred!

Summary

Kinks

• Control, control, control!
• sadism (keeping it this broad cause as long as its not super dangerous, but painful, i am probably into it), but especially:
  • wax!
  • rough intercourse
  • needles!
  • spankings
  • any form of clamp
• Rules & Tasks
• bondage
• chastity
  • bonus points if combined with sounds and piercings for the extra sadism boost
• open to explore and learn ;)

Limits

• age play (little play in a sexual context and all that)
• common sense stuff (things involving the public / people who didn't consent, or just things that pose a danger to anyone involved)

Ideas for your message

• What are your hobbies?
• What is a unique thing about your body?
• What is smth you achieved you are proud of?
• What is your previous experience with kink?
• Do you know of specific thing you enjoy a lot in kink?
• What are you expecting to get out of a dynamic?
• What time zone are you in?

Good to know

i like to use the traffic light safeword system like this: green = i am enjoying this, full steam ahead yellow = i am still enjoying this, but approaching my limit, don't push further orange = this is too much, slow down, but we can continue to play red = smth is very wrong, stop play rn