Hi all. Hope this post finds you well, and that you’ve had a smashing start to your 2025.

I am a mature, passionate, kinky man who is on the hunt for an equally passionate submissive to connect and explore life with.

Ideally im looking to develop a strong meaningful bond that goes beyond your typical D/s dynamic you find here on Reddit; filled with banter, laughs, exploration, deep conversation, and the building of trust.

About me

• 6ft, 177lb, fit without being ripped. Short brown hair, with an equally short beard.
• Comes across as someone easy going, fun loving, who just loves spending time with his mates. Funny, creative, honest, and empathetic. But underneath that i'm someone who craves obedience and passion. Who understands that structure equals safety. And who wants to lead someone by the hand and help them to grow and be the best version of themselves.
• Country guy at heart. Loves animals. Loves the outdoors. 
• Enjoys surfing, kayaking, wakeboarding. Hoping to get my scuba license this year.

About you

• Youre healthy, and take care of your appearance. Ideally on the fit / small side who likes to stay active.
• You love to learn and improve. You’re not paralysed by new things, even when they may seem scary at first. 
• You have hobbies and passions that you like to share.
• You are a great communicator and know how to keep a conversation going.

About the Dynamic

It’s impossible to list all the facets of the type of Dynamic that im looking for. And much of it depends on the needs and wants of the submissive that im with. But here is a list of just some of the components that I personally enjoy.

• Control / oversight over aspects of your day such as sleep schedule, wardrobe, diet, and exercise.
• Creating self care routines, such as meditation, journalling, skin care routines
• A wide variety of Kink training, such as orgasm control and denial, anal training, deepthroat training, protocol, positional, cumslut training and many many others that we can talk about.
• Sharing our day together through messages / pics / vids / calls. I love hearing all about my subs day. The exciting adventures she’s been on, moments of beauty that she witnessed, her accomplishments, or things that have upset or frustrated her. I want to feel like im a part of her everyday, and she’s a part of mine.

Reach Out

If any of the above has grabbed your attention then id love to hear from you. Please put in effort with your initial message. Don’t just say “hey”. I want to hear about you! So tell me your name / alias, your age and what you look like, and maybe some of your hobbies & passions. 

What are you waiting for. Hit that chat button and let’s see where it takes us.