Good morning, afternoon, or whatever time it is where you’re pretending to be productive. I won’t waste your time with fluff, but fair warning: if you skim this and miss the good stuff, I’ll assume attention to detail isn’t your thing.

The Basics

Let’s keep it simple. I’m a 35-year-old professional working in Marketing/Sales, with 9 years of real-life D/s experience and a year of online exploration. I’m not here for games or half-hearted commitments. I’m here to build a dynamic that’s equal parts trust, control, and meaningful connection.

If you’re looking for a Dom who will drop everything for you after two messages, you’ve wandered into the wrong post. But if you’re ready to build something real—a connection that’s both thrilling and grounding—keep reading.

What I’m Looking For

I want a submissive who’s ready to explore her depths and discover just how far she can go with the right guidance. I’m talking about someone who’s curious, willing, and ready to trust me enough to shape her into something extraordinary.

I’m not interested in quick thrills or surface-level submission. I want to know you inside and out—your fears, your limits, your desires. I want to control your mind long before I control anything else.

Let’s be clear: this is about trust first and control second. If you’re not open to communication, honesty, and a little bit of vulnerability, this won’t work. But if you are? We’ll build something that pushes boundaries and creates growth for us both.

The Fun Stuff—My Interests

If this is the part you’ve been waiting for, congrats, you’ve earned it. Here’s a glimpse of what makes my Dom side tick:

Bondage (Let’s see how well you handle restraint)

Orgasm control/edging (Patience is a virtue, but begging? Now that’s an art)

Humiliation/degradation (Respectfully disrespectful, if you will)

TPE (Total Power Exchange—if you don’t know what it is, I’ll teach you)

Daily control (Schedules, tasks, and rituals to keep things interesting)

This isn’t just about kinks; it’s about creating a structure where submission feels as natural as breathing.

Hard Passes

Let’s set the record straight:

Anything illegal, harmful, or overly dangerous (no thank you).

Extreme brattiness (a little sass is fine, but if “no” is your favorite word, we won’t work).

Blood, scat, animals, or anything involving family and friends (let’s keep it classy).

About Me

I’m calm, confident, and deliberate in everything I do. I enjoy the psychological aspects of D/s—getting into your mind, understanding your needs, and creating a space where you feel safe enough to be vulnerable.

Outside of this, I’m just a guy who balances a demanding job with a desire to unwind through meaningful connections. I enjoy good conversations, dry humor, and the satisfaction of knowing I’ve earned your trust.

What I Expect from You

Words matter here. Since this is an online dynamic, I need someone who can communicate clearly, express herself thoughtfully, and engage with curiosity. A love for reading or a sharp wit doesn’t hurt, either—it makes the connection all the more rewarding.

In Closing

If this resonates with you, send me a message that tells me about yourself—your interests, your limits, and what you’re hoping to find. I’m not asking for a novel (unless that’s your thing), but a little effort goes a long way.

Looking forward to seeing where this can go.

P.S. If your first message is a one-word “hi,” I’ll assume you don’t take this seriously.