Hello there, hopefully you are having a good day! If you’re in the Midwest, hoping you’re safe and warm; this snow is crazy!

I’m posting here today because I’m seeking a dominant, as the title says. However I am looking for some specifics.

The most important one is that im looking for both a kink/sexual relationship as well as an emotional/romantic one. I’m on the GreyA spectrum so I’m not looking for sex. My physical sexuality is expressed through kink!

Mostly looking for an IRL partner for now, due to current situation. I feel like is the best for me at the moment, however I’m also down for online if relocation is available. Age doesn’t matter to me, caring more about the person as a whole.

My kinks are wide varied I’ll attach a kinklist at the end of the post, but the major ones  are: Cuckholdry, Feminization, submission, service, humiliation, cuddling, bondage, chastity, wearing lingerie/heels, and anal. Also a big fan of tasks, schedules and control in general! Just to be clear, I don’t think of feminization as humiliating. I think it’s empowering and it makes me feel hot.

Below I’ll add more details

What I’m looking for:

• I’m looking for a partner who is capable of balancing kink and care, an emotional and physical connection, a long term-partner.
• I’m a submissive at heart, but I can (and will) adapt to my partner needs in order to make it happy and fulfilled, but for that to happen I need to feel some form of emotional attachment to it.
• While I’m a submissive, you dont have to be one yourself. I am open to Switches!
• Preferably we also share interests, so that we can spend time together outside of kink :)

Main things that I want in my partner:

• Someone who is communicative and honest, I want to hear about what you think and feel.
• Kinky, confident and capable of expressing yourself.
• Can hold a conversation but is not expecting to be chatting 24hr a day; neither asphyxiating nor uninterested in being together. It spikes my anxiety.
• Either employed or studying, doesn’t matter on what (besides cops as ACAB). Interested in developing something long-term.
• Some degree of physical attraction and being open with your sexuality.
• Tolerant and respectful of other people (I only get a long with people that are progressive).

What I can offer myself:

• Willing to submit or adapt to your desires and necessities.
• Will have someone that cares for you, your life and everything about you.
• Will try to help you out with whatever you need me for. Interested in learning new things and hobbies, specially if that means we can spend time together.
• Youll have someone that will try to turn you on and keep you happy satisfied! 

My kinks are wide varied, so I will do my best to please you. There are some limits that I have.

No sharing of personal info until I feel comfortable - at that point happy to share a photo. I’m 6ft, 175lbs and have a slim build.

My limits are: nothing illegal. Not comfortable with hard pain, very harsh schedules and tasks or blood. No electrical. No tattoos.

Outside of kinks, my major interest revolve around athletics, media, and art. I would say that I lean on the slightly traditionally handsome, slightly nerdy, slightly artsy kinda vibe.

If you are interested, send me a message and introduce yourself

Hope to hear from you and hope you have a nice day!