I have dabbled off and on within this realm for quite sometime. During this time what I have discovered is that my ideal partner is that of a Soft Dom/Pleasure Dom type.

I have a tendency to think and over think which is exacerbated by a career where I am required to make some serious decisions in my day-to-day work life. This particular kink realm offers me an opportunity to not be strong and in charge but in converse, shut off my serious brain, stop thinking and just unplug and feel in a positive and pleasurable manner.

I’m not a perfectionist, but I unfortunately have a habit of getting things done at the expense of my own happiness and well-being; Not by choice, but out of necessity when human lives are at risk. I am much better at taking care of other people than myself.

Soft and sensual holds the same value as rough and dominate for me. Given that, what is a most aligned match for me is someone who is sensual, nurturing and affectionate with the balance of dominant, firm, and aggressive.

Chemistry coupled with open and honest communication is essential for me to build and maintain trust … and among other things, a non-negotiable.

Kinks: light bondage (interested in furthering that to shibari), edging, forced orgasms, semi-public, breast play, light spanking, praise kink - not an exhaustive list but a foot starting place. I am not into degradation or anything painful.

I prefer you be in your 40s or beyond coupled with experience within this realm. Physical preferences are tall with good arms :)

I am not interested in games or shallow interactions - if you can’t grasp my attention authentically, I doubt you could maintain what I seek and need consistently, deep-rooted and long-lasting.

As for me: SWF with pale porcelain skin; standing 5’6 and of the BBW realm (pear shaped if we’re leaning into fruit descriptors lol); medium length dark hair, and dark eyes complete with trendy frames. If BBW isn’t your cup ‘o tea, then you definitely should not drink from my glass. A response from you without some reference to that will not only indicate you couldn’t be bothered to read this in its entirety, but will also in similar fashion not entice my response.