Hey, shot in the dark here as I’m nothing if not specific. I’m an AFAB queer nb subby switch. Looking for a long term monogamous partner/dom ~27-38 years old, open to friends (no hookups), in or around PDX. I don’t care about gender but I just date other members of the LGBTQ community, don’t do transphobes or people who want me to be a woman (don’t call me a girl, esp during play). Must be into heavy ass riffs and weird fringe shit (artists, movies, etc). Tattoos and piercings preferred as I have my fair share, bit of a special interest. I’m into people that look mean but are giant sweethearts- loyal, affectionate, cuddly. While I love rough play I want a loving, healthy connection with plenty of aftercare (that goes both ways- I’m very loving and would love to care for a dom that loves to care for me). Vegan a huge plus as I am vegan. Neurodivergent a plus, almost all my friends are autistic. Any art/music related special interests a huge plus, safe space for gearheads. If you resonate thus far that’s sweet. I’m 5’6”, medium build. Hourglass figure, long black hair, green eyes, metal/punk/goth vibe if I didn’t make that part obvious enough. The fun stuff- I have a ton of kinks and am very experimental. I will not do scat or more than a little blood, nothing that lands anyone in the hospital/jail, ageplay, or nipple torture- I have a high pain tolerance but my nips are crazy sensitive. I really love impact play, collaring, choking, bondage/restraints, CNC (trust has to be built ofc), exhibitionism, the list goes on and on and on. I’m pretty bratty and while a softer touch is sometimes necessitated I need a good, mean, hard dom. I love a dom that knows what they’re doing and has gear all ready to play/torture with. This isn’t my first rodeo and I’m looking for the right vibe. Finesse, passion, and reciprocity are key words. Weird is also a key word. Hard boundaries and clear communication a must. Looking for a good connection, I have trust issues and am slow to warm up but am very sweet and have a high libido with the right person. Please only DM if you actually fit the description, please don’t make me regret this (looking at you, 75 year old straight married man in Oklahoma).