Hello, my name is Dani, I'm 30nb amab from Bethlehem PA. I'm looking to find friends who share similar interests in kink, and possibly develop into a relationship if the vibe is right! I don't necessarily want the friendship or relationship to be 100% about kink with a 24/7 dynamic, but rather something we can engage in when the mood is right. I would ideally like someone within a few hours of the Lehigh Valley, since I'd like to meet irl at some point, but o line friends are welcome too!

I'm 5'8", 145 lbs with an athletic build. I generally present as male in my daily life, but prefer to be more feminine in kink spaces. I'm generally pretty shy, introverted, and quiet. I text pretty flamboyant, but irl, I don't talk much lol!

I'd say I'm a gentle, nurturing person. I love to care for and spoil my partner, and make them feel safe, loved, and happy. I'm also a total snuggle slut, and absolutely love being comfy and cuddly with my partner and just playing games together and watching movies and stuff.

I'm a bit of a chronic chatter and love to talk throughout the day. I don't expect anyone to be able to talk every second of the day, but I would like daily communication. I will send you a good morning message pretty much every day. And I'll tell you how beautiful you are and how much I'm thinking of you at random times! I want to hear about your day, and how you're feeling, and anything that goes through your mind🥰 I wanna know about the things that make you happy, and I wanna be the one you can vent to when you're feeling sad. I love to get flirty too, and will probably tell you how much I wanna snuggle you and kiss you and stuff very frequently🤭 I also use a ton of emojis to convey tone. So if you don't like those kinds of messages, I'm probably not the one for you lol! And I'd definitely like to share pics and have voice calls eventually! I can be a bit of a showoff, and I love to be told how cute and sexy I am lol! But I only really take and send pics at the request of my partner. I'll never send something unsolicited😌

As far as kink goes, I consider myself a switch, and I'll adapt to any role that makes my partner the happiest! I get the most satisfaction from making my partner happy, so I tend to be more service oriented whether I take a more dominant or submissive role. I tend treat my partner the same kind of way as a sub or dom, just within a different context. For example, if I'm a dom, I might clean for my partner because they're my lil princess and they deserve to be pampered and cared for🥹 But if I'm a sub, I'll do cleaning because they're my queen and they deserve to be served and worshipped lol! Though I tend to enjoy being more subby than dominant.

Some of my favorites are lingerie and feminization in general, toys, ass play, and ass, breast, and pussy worship. In general, I prefer to get pleasure from my ass and mouth, and I'm really into tastes and scents, so burying my face in a booty is like perfect for me lol! Im very big on praise, and as mentioned above, I'm very service oriented. I'm open to some degree of pain, bondage, and orgasm control or chastity. I could be down for breath play or choking too. I'm a very well trained martial artist and an expert at chokes, so it would be very safe with me! Thats not something i typical want to do in a sexual context, but if my partner likes it, i would be happy to give it a try! My hard limits are public, blood, cutting, body mods, scat play, non-consent, and of course anything illegal. I'm generally open to giving anything else a shot!

I'm also interested in abdl. I like it for the wholesome and cuddly side of things. I find that it's a way to make myself and my partners feel safe, loved, and cared for that nothing else really compares to. Though I'd say abdl is more soothing and therapeutic than sexual for me. I know it's not for everyone and it's not something I would force partners to engage in. I just bring it up for the sake of transparency.

In my vanilla life, I do medical research for a living. My favorite hobby is Brazilian jiu-jitsu. I have been practicing it for about 10 years, so I'm pretty good! This is where the expert at chokes mention above comes from lol😋 Other than that, I generally prefer to spend my free time staying in, snuggled up with a blanket, and playing Nintendo games or watching random stuff on Netflix. My days are long, exhausting, and mentally taxing, so when I get free time, I tend to just wanna shut my brain off😅 I love rpgs like Fire Emblem, Xenoblade Chronicles, Monster hunter, and Pokémon. And I primarily watch anime and stuff. I recently watched Dan da Dan, which was incredible!

If any of that sounds interesting, feel free to send a chat request🥰 I hope to hear from some of you!