Hi all. First time posting to r/BDSMpersonals, so I hope I'm following all the subreddit's rules correctly.

I'm looking for somebody around my age, in east-end Toronto (Scarborough), who is interested in getting tied up in an aesthetically pleasing manner. I'm not looking for anything too intense or complicated, I just enjoy tying people up, and admiring the results. If you want a little more than that, e.g. if you want me to go down on you after and give you a "happy ending" to round off the night, I'm happy to provide that, but I'm not looking for sex or any kind of reciprocation involving my own pleasure. I'm looking to focus on the experience of tying someone up, and creating something beautiful; artistic even. I want to use your body as a canvas to create something worth revering for a bit, before untying it all and starting the next one.

Details:

About me: 27M in east-end Toronto (Scarborough), STI/STD free, white, 6'2", blond, 170lbs, physically active and I don't drink or smoke, build is fit but not jacked. For pics, check my profile. Huge nerd for science, tech, and space stuff, but also just deeply curious and fascinated by everything. Software developer by day, housing and transit advocate by night. Currently working in R&D at a major tech firm. Hobbies include canoe trips, rock climbing, board games, and reading.

You: 23-33F, single (not looking for trouble), DDF, and you maintain a healthy lifestyle. Bonus points if you have interesting hobbies/interests or if you're involved in any volunteering or activism, that way we have something to chat about while I'm busy with the rope.

I prefer the look when the rope is against bare skin, so ideally, you're comfortable getting undressed, but if you'd prefer not to, a sports bra and yoga pants are fine too (they don't bunch up too much and get in the way as I'm tying).

Safety: In terms of rope-play specific concerns, I'll be keeping things pretty simple because I've only done this a handful of times before. I'm definitely not going to be doing any suspensions as those are well outside of my comfort zone. I mostly intend to follow step-by-step guides like those available at theduchy.com. Even so, I will have paramedic shears and a rope-cutting hook handy so that I can cut you out quickly in case anything feels even a little off. All the ropes will be freshly washed through a washing machine, have never been used with anyone with an STI/STD, and if you feel the need, you're welcome to keep pants/underwear on as a barrier.

In terms of general safety, pretty standard precautions - let's meet somewhere public first, like a coffee shop or something, and I can show ID to confirm my identity. I can host, but if you'd feel safer at your place or a hotel, that's cool too (I can bring the ropes with me).