Hi there! I'm a very experienced Dom, live in California, am pretty well established, have a good career and wanting a partner/sub whom I can settle down with. I want a true partner, someone to be my equal in most things and who will help me as we build our lives together. At the same time I'm looking for my partner to be my sub, someone who is looking for someone to help guide her through life and will submit herself to me. I understand this sounds very contradictory to itself so hopefully this will explain it:

I want my partner to make decisions with me on our major life decisions, things like housing, potential future children, family events or other interpersonal things. Also considering I live in California, someone who could help with finances, even if that means you work part time for minimum wage, something low stress with little concern about longevity. The extra income would help primarily with extra frivolous spending for the most part. I want my partner to have a life, friends and hobbies outside of me. I am not your whole world.

As my sub I would expect simple ongoing rules to be maintained that would be incorporated into our daily lives such at wearing a collar 24/7, use of honorifics and some wardrobe control. I do not want a 24/7 sub, but I want to be able to flow in and out of our dynamic freely. Play wise I'm very into rough and impact play. I love testing your pain tolerances and expanding them and exploring our sexuality in general (I'm very open minded).

I'm open to talking to anyone from anywhere as long as there is intent for you to relocate to me at some point in the relatively near future (ideally within a year of us establishing a dynamic).

Some immediate deal breakers:

I have cats

I ride motorcycles

I'm strictly monogamous

Alcohol/420 friendly

If you're interested, please feel free to reach out