Hi I'm Kat starting with the information that's sometimes a deal breaker for folks. First I am a transgender woman (MTF) without any major surgeries. I'm also overweight, my weight has been a lifelong struggle for me and it's something in actively working on and things are going well but keep in mind healthy weight loss happens slowly over time (healthy weight loss is 1 maybe 2 lbs a week).

I'm looking to explore an online dynamic or in person if it works out that we are within a reasonable distance from each other. I'm seeking power exchange and maybe even TPE on a long enough timelinem. I want to give up control over certain things, and defer to my better.

I am willing to submit but I also need to maintain my personal life and connections, I want you to mold me and shape me into your perfect submissive but at the same time I need you to respect my autonomy as a person we will be compatible.

Just a heads up I'm only open to being exclusive if we are local but I am poly and currently single so if your monogamous let me know and we can talk about

Outside of kink:

I work in healthcare in the US, so I'm a little private about my job and what I do. What I do isn't crazy it's just that I work with folks with mental illness and substance use issues and I work closely with clients so there are a lot of things about my job that I can't talk about out of respect for my clients.

I have various hobbies: 3d printing, sometimes this hobby feels like the majority of the hobby is spent fixing the printer but it's good fun and I'm often able to print fixes to things that broke and save money and garbage from landfills. With this I've done various projects sometimes it feels like a self supporting hobby because some times it feels like I spend a lot of time on printing projects for my 3d printing hobby

videogames: I'm a PC gamer I play mostly casual/ sim games. my game of choice lately has been city skylines two.

I love to read, I read mostly science fiction but some other stuff two, some gay romance, and like the occasional popular book.

Back to the kink world here's what I'm into and my hard limits

Kinks: bondage, impact play, praise, discipline, control, pet play, humiliation, degradation, orgasm control/chastity, bathroom use control and more

With the kinks If you look at that list and only see one or two that you are into, hit me up odds are if we can incorporate a couple things I like and a couple things you like we will both be happy. Also willing to try most things twice, including some things some folks think is more extreme/taboo so if your into something let's talk about it It might be outside my comfort zone but maybe I'll end up liking it.

Hard Limits: blood & gore, CBT, blackmail, scat, feeding

If you read this far I have one question that I'd like to hear your answer to in your first message, what do you get out of being a Dom? Why do you enjoy it?