Hi there!
First of all I'll write some stuff to help sort me off, in case what I'm seeking/offering doesn't fit what you're seeking/offering!
- As title says, I'm seeking something longterm, which would transition into IRL
- I'm seeking something akin to a romantic relationship along with a D/s dynamic
- I'm seeking something monogamous
- I'm seeking someone who is (if not wanting) open to having kids (I'm not ready for kids yet, but I will possibly want them in the future)
- Tests I've taken have labeled me as a brat (I don't believe I will brat a whole lot, but just a fair warning)
- I have fixed retainers on the back of both my upper and lower teeth (not removeable sadly)
- I sometimes deal with acne and I have blackheads (neither are always visible in photos/videos. Hence why I disclose this now)
- I have social anxiety (again disclosing if it's an issue for some. This does not usually affect my day to day life)
- I'm a virgin (If that wasn't clear enough from the title)
About me
I'm 23 years old, I live in Scandinavia in a 1 room apartment with my cat. I'm 158cm tall (5.2 feet) and weigh 50kg (110 pounds). My hair is a light brown color (around shoulder lenght) and i have white skin with blue/grey eyes. I attend university a few hours a week and sometimes travel with them. Outside my university I work part time.
Pics of me (face drawn out) all are SFW --> https://imgur.com/a/ExQjuq6
I'm an introvert and very shy/awkward until I get to know someone. I don't smoke or do drugs (would prefer if you don't either). I rarely drink alcohol as well. I'm not religious but I do attend church on special occasions like weddings, funerals and christmas eve (I don't care if you're religious or not. As long as I'm not forced to be)
Hobbies
Podcasts, Movies, Series, YT and Music
Reading, Console gaming, Board games, Cooking and Baking (my current kitchen is shoe box size so there is a damper on this)
Short hikes (like 2-4 km long, do want to try longer ones), Horse riding, Plants, Rocks and Fossils
Kinks
As mentioned I'm a virgin, and therefore a complete noob, meaning i have zero experience (except for bad kisses from truth and dare).
I'm open to trying a lot of different kinks, and very enthusiastic about just learning more. I'll mention some of them here, but I do have a more extensive sheet with around 300 kinks / plays I've looked over.
Kink tests --> https://imgur.com/a/QmayJpH
Sub test I did for fun --> https://imgur.com/a/eYY3Zx9
Kinks
Praise, Collars, Bratting, TPE, Orgasm control/denial, Spanking/Impact play, Caregiving
Soft limits
CNC, Free use, Anal, Breeding, Primal play
Hard limits
Blood, Vomit, Scat/Piss, Knife play, Non-monogamy, Anything illegal, Hospital stuff, Humiliation/Degradation
I'm seeking
- Preferably an experienced Dom who has kinks which overlap slightly with mine
- Someone capable of guiding, teaching and going slowly, but also being capable of sternness
- Someone respectful of boundaries and agreements
- Someone valuing safewords, aftercare and creating a safe environment for both of us
- Someone over 18 (preferably older than me, but not by more than 20 years)
- Someone who values getting to know me, and not just the kinks
Side notes
You don't need to be from Scandinavia or Europe, I'm open to LDR/Online and then moving to IRL later
CET/CEST timezones will make communication easier, but I'm willing to work with other time zones too!
I'm open to relocation after some time so moving to IRL can be done
I WILL be vetting you to the best of my abilities, and I expect you to vet me right back
If any of this caught your attention or if you have questions feel free to shoot me a message
Preferably a longer message including; Short info about yourself, Hobbies or interests, What you're looking for in a future relationship, Your kinks and limits
I'm also open to other subs or Doms messaging me if they just wanna talk or give advice etc
Thank you for looking, reading and having patience to do so, and have a great day or night!
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