Greetings and salutations, everyone.

I’m Jonah, a 25 year old law enforcement official who is looking something..more?

Typically you find people who say they are into kink online, then come to find out they’re just wanting a dispenser for their pleasures. That isn’t me.

To be forward, I’m a switch, a true switch. I get pleasure from both being Dominant, as well as submissive. Some may wonder how this could function effectively in a dynamic with an individual who is one or the other. A rather simple answer if you look at it realistically. It means I’m flexible. I’m comfortable as a Dominant, and also as a submissive. I can fully gain pleasure from one or the other, or both interchangeably.

I have been in the lifestyle of BDSM for eight years, taking the time I was 17-18 to learn the pillars and ins and outs of the lifestyle, so I know what I want, and am comfortable within my wants.

What I look for is either a Dominant or a submissive that I can grow and cultivate a relationship with. That means effort in getting to know you, and vice versa.

Am I a sexual person? Absolutely, but I know my value, and refuse to allow a person to partake in that side of me until trust and commitment have been established.

Some of you reading this may wonder what I’m into, and I understand. After all, what is kink, without similarities between persons. I won’t indulge in answering too in depth, but a few things I enjoy are: Sensory play, Denial, Orgasm control, Breathplay, and bondage.

All listed links are interchangeable, and not at all what I am fully into. As for my limits, they are: gore, permanent marking, scat, and anything illegal.

To those who decide that something could come out of you and I talking, please begin your message with “bananas” so I know you’ve read my message thoroughly.

This will be online to begin, but can transition to in person once something of substance has been established.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Best, J