About me:
I'm a big mix of nerd, alternative and soft girl. I like horror, manga, smut/erotica, gaming, makeup, fashion, animals, cute things and content creation. I, like everyone else, have some mental health issues but I'm not looking for someone to fix/take responsibility for them. Day to day(out of dynamic) I come off as very responsible and typically have people thinking I'm dominant. I do have a Dom currently, I am not looking to replace them and they are okay with my having other dynamics. My current Dom I would consider to be my first, so I am very much still exploring and learning things despite having been interested in BDSM for the past 20 years.
About my kink:I enjoy being able to let go of control to someone I trust and not having to think. I like someone who is able to be strict but soft, prefer rewards to punishments(usually) and I don't tolerate yelling or hostile tones. I like being told what to do and thrive with clear guidelines and communication. Very heavily into affection, praise, positive reinforcement and being doted on.I can be bratty but it's not a super frequent thing and typically is in the form of teasing/being playful.
I do have toys that can be controlled via app long distance, this is something that could be discussed after getting to know one another.
What I'm looking for:
A caregiver, Daddy Dom or pleasure Dom. Age 26-46. As I said, strict but also soft. Someone who communicates well, is very nurturing and affectionate. This would be kept strictly online/long distance and I'm not looking for a relationship but, as I am demi, I will have to get to know you before I can feel attracted/sexually interested. But I am happy to test the waters with things like being given mundane commands or tasks while we learn about each other. This would ideally be long term.
Hard boundaries:
No yelling
No hostile tones
No humiliation/degradation
No lying
No bodily waste
Partial list of interests:
Orgasm control/forced orgasm
CncBondage/movement control
Possibly DD/LG without age regression
Pet play(soft)
Exhibitionism
Impact
Dubious consent/Naive play
Praise
Task and reward
Breed
Cum play
Temporary branding
Sleep play
Free use
Masked stalker scenes
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