I love riding that balance between being soft yet firm, playfully degrading yet so damn supportive. Helping you be so good for me while your thoughts are so dark. I’m not here just for the sexual connection. I want to be the person you can come to when you need anything. I find a bit of D/s dynamics to really build that deeper connection I crave.

Anyone can say awful shit to tear you down with no plan to pick you up. It might feel good when you’re turned on in the moment but afterwards don’t you feel even more empty? That’s not me. I’m not cosplaying a role to make up for my lack of authority. I’m naturally dominant. I lead at home, I lead in my career, I push myself so hard yet I’ve found that I’m my best when I have someone to push harder to be their best for me. If you need me to break you down I will. But I promise if I do I will build you back up piece by piece and you’ll feel so cared for every step of the way.

Physically I’m 6’4”, fit and athletic, big hands 👀, and bright piercing eyes. And… I’ve got all my hair, plenty to dig your fingers into.

I love someone that aims to please, can talk back when warranted, and isn’t content living a mediocre life or settling. I’m the type to share my life in pictures, videos, and voice notes or calls and would love someone that seeks the same. I am married and I don’t intend to leave. Judge me if you must, but life is too short to live it with voids needing filled. No judgement if you have a boyfriend or husband or whatever living situation you fell into. You’re always safe with me.

In my day to day I love to cook and bake, have a small forest of houseplants, and enjoy the outdoors. I get to travel a lot for work and feel lucky. There’s nothing that comes close to exploring a new place and finding all the little local haunts.

Above all, memories mean the most to me. I’m a sentimental bitch. Let’s make some together. Come tell me what makes you, you, and let’s find out how well you fit with me.