Hey there!

I'm kinda in a weird spot right now, I'm incredibly busy for the coming weeks, yet I'm also longing for some new connection with a fellow kinky person. So I'm looking for someone who is okay with just exchanging long messages with delays between them. I will propably manage to write at least one per day, but until February my time to actually chat life is a bit limited (after Jan 24th that it will get a lot better). So people who want to take things slowly, here I am!

My kinks are quite versatile, at the core I am a "caring sadist", I enjoy the feeling of getting into someones head and finding out wich buttons to press to get those beautiful reactions out of them. I don't have to hurt anyone hard, I just need to see that it affects you in some way. I also have a switch side wich is much less explored (4 submissive sessions in 13 years of being active in the scene). I highly value communication, safewords and mutual respect in every interaction. Specific kinks cover painplay, orgasm control, humiliation, praise, petplay, DD/lg, bondage, slave training and CNC. I'm willing to try most things, just not into scat and permanent harm.

Outside of kink I'm a heavy nerd. I work as a scientist, am super talkative when I feel you appreciate my rambling. I love nature and animals, I read A LOT, I listen to rock/metal, I enjoy hiking and gardening, play video and boardgames. Personality wise I'd describe myself as calm and introverted but confident and silly among people that I like. I'm impossible to get truly angry.

Appearance wise I'm 6'1, 170lb, long brown curly hair, green eyes, short beard.

From you I mostly expect that you're talkative as well, that you're willing to answer long messages with equally long messages, and actually enjoy reading random thoughts that appeared in my brain. I don't care for gender, ethnicity, bodytype or age. I just don't get along with people who are self-absorbed, ignorant or aggressive.

Would love to hear from you! Please write a little introduction as a starting point :)