Good evening! I'm a 27-year-old man, in my day life I have a high responsibility job. Maybe that's why I crave a loss of control from time to time.
I identify as a sub in the BDSM world and I'm looking for a dominant partner. I've had a few brief experiences, mostly virtual, and I'm pretty sure about what I like, but I'm also open to trying new things with someone more experienced.
I'm also sexually inexperienced for various reasons related to my personality and my inclinations towards non-vanilla sex. I've never had full sexual intercourse. I enjoy it when this "characteristic" of mine becomes a reason for teasing and humiliation.
As I mentioned, I really enjoy being humiliated, but also having rules to follow and being punished; sometimes even disobeying. The reasons, which I've discovered by asking myself some questions and trying to understand how it works, are that I like it when the other person takes care of me, even in a strict way, not hesitating to give me punishments; I also like the feeling of being "put in my place"; of being reminded of who I am and that I'm not the one in power in the dynamic.
My personality is very sweet, as well as submissive (when I'm not feeling rebellious, of course :) ). I like receiving attention and giving it, think of me as a poor stray dog. I think I'm a very open-minded person, with whom you can talk about anything, who prefers to ask questions and understand rather than judge.
My vanilla interests range from music to reading to movies, all very mundane things. I love comics and animated films, maybe because I like to feel a bit like a child sometimes. I'll leave other details for those who want to delve deeper, I like to discover the other person through dialogue and not by making "shopping lists", that's also why I haven't listed specific practices.
I hope to meet someone compatible. I'm mostly looking for something casual and platonic at the moment
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