In these cold winter months the wish for someone that can bring me the warm cozy feeling that comes with submitting has been getting stronger again.

Something that I want to mention right at the beginning is, that I'm looking for a longterm dynamic that is online only for now. Until I'm done with university I am not interested in meeting up, both for focus and safety reasons. I've had success with this in the past, but I know it's not for everyone. After trust is built I do enjoy sending pictures and videos, and also want to know what my dom looks like.

I found subspace to be like a little temporary escape from all stress and fears. There's nothing more enjoyable than being focused solely on obeying and pleasing, while feeling completely safe. It seems contradictory, but giving up control feels freeing and I want to stop suppressing that part of me. Even outside of sexual things I crave the feeling of being able to turn my mind off in my doms presence. Not in a tpe kind of way, but meaning I know I feel safe and can trust him to make decisions for me and lead me. As the big sister that moved countries for university it's almost my duty to have it all together at all times, and it's rare to find someone where I can unfiltered show all emotions and chaos that hide behind that.

Between studying and classes I really enjoy reading, hiking and a few video games. My high school was focused on languages and literature, but I ended up following my dream of vet med. Coming here to study was the most difficult, but at the same time best thing I ever did for myself. I have a dog, and since I spent lots of time on my grandparents farm growing up, I'm just as fond of everything from chicken to cow. Sometimes I'm too opinionated for my own good, but at the same time I'm very straight forward with my feelings, so you'll never be left guessing where you stand. Chronic oversharer might be a red flag I'm wearing proudly.

To live up to that title I'll mention I struggled with mental health when I was younger, but nowadays only some anxiety is left from that. The last year was the happiest I've ever been, which I mostly owe to my amazing friends.

Physically I am rather petite, 160cm tall and 50kg heavy, with dark blonde hair and blue eyes. I'm usually going back and forth between a few countries in Europe, but if everything else is right I don't see time zones as a problem.

What do I expect of a dom? Really important to me is regular and honest communication. As I want to feel safe being lead by my dom and giving up control to him, I have expecations for his personality rather than physical appearance. I tend to go well with people that are confident in themselves and their actions. I like someone that I can rely on and that feels secure, while still being open about own emotions and struggles. What deters me the most is childish behaviour and speech, that can literally erase any attraction. I think that's how the years of babysitting left their marks. Also if your method of choice for ending a dynamic is ghosting, stay away from me. Age wise the range I feel comfortable with is 21-35.

Since I enjoy pleasing the most I find it almost impossible to list my favourite kinks, as it changes depending on what my partner enjoys. What I'll always love though is praise, choking, light humilation, feeling used, bruises. Aftercare is really important to me.

If I can tell someone didn't read through the post I won't reply, I hope that is understandable.

This is long already, so if there's more you'd like to know feel free to ask and tell me a bit about yourself and the kind of dynamic you're seeking.

Looking forward to meeting you!<3