Intro:

Ultimately I'm a varied Kinkster most often a Primal Daddy Dom in bed, definitely Hedonistic from my perspective and somewhat Sadistic in rough play from others perspective. I'm seeking regular fun ongoing kinky chemistry/vibe, D/s FwB/FB/Play Partner to keep, to have, for longer term fun

I'm 36, 6ft, Brown man, tattooed, shaved head with a beard, a beefier use to workout dad bod currently, well groomed, big on hygiene, selfcare, mature man seeking good match. Reddit Profile has my FetLife link if you're on there as well.. unfortunately Reddit/Fetlife is all we got as kink platforms

I can host and prefer to. I live by myself in Burnaby, in the Brentwood area by the Mall & Skytrain. I prefer later in the afternoons, evenings, nights/overnight, given that I'm kept busy Monday to Friday business hours so best if you have similar schedule, free nights/weekends with the ability and desire for spending few hours playing enjoying eachother..

Ideally I want to keep it going in life rather than always be searching for someone, that's not my style.. as I've gotten older, one off hookups don't satiate me the same way. It's not the same as when I was younger. I look for chemistry before jumping into anything.. In play, I like to pour some drinks and/or have some weed and make an evening of it..

Overview:

I'm not seeking anything outside of private bedroom fun.. tepid vanilla sex won't do, I need carnal play each time.. Not to make my kinks the entirety of my identity, I believe kinky sex, Dom/sub energy is a natural inclination, now in modern time we just use labels to try define everything...

I click the most with naturally submissive-servicing in bed. And, I like differences/contrasts in our ages/backgrounds/styles/interests, I like ranges of looks/personalities overall as long as there's some chemistry to build things off from, under chemistry is where I put attraction-vibe-energy-spark

I wouldn’t exactly call myself a sapiosexual but I am drawn to women who can express themselves well, it’s refreshing when I get a reply from a woman who can string together a few sentences, It shows level of intelligence and emotional depth.. I appreciate women who can communicate clearly and can keep a conversation flowing naturally. It's moreso about being mentally stimulated for physical fun to come..

In bed, I want someone I mesh with for something fun in order to sustain a chill situation for consistently good and kinkier sex. I'm into lot of stuff but not necessarily chasing all my kink fulfillment, I don't think true perfect match ups exist but I feel many great kinky counterparts are out there

Everything:

I'm just single, busy in life, not swiping the Apps or seeing anyone currently; I prefer local single for the convenience to see often.. Having a high sex drive, I want an insatiable and energetic woman with who I have chemistry with for this setup. I like to spend few hours playing, going multiple times; I'm of the mindset, if we don't have chemistry then I don't want to play, if we do vibe then I don't want to stop..

I've had enough partners and experiences in life to know what I like and don't, I definitely prefer an experienced kinky woman to truly enjoy myself. I like both Younger and Older, from early-20s to late-40s who knows what she wants, if there's mutual attraction and interest for something then that's all that matters. TBH, not opposed to a relationship BUT that's not why I'm here. not looking for dating per say.

I'm kinky but I don't say I'm "in the lifestyle" or "in the kink community". I don’t need to tell everyone around me how kinky I am and all the stuff I do or have done or list all my fetishes. I'm a private person and value my privacy. I've put it out here on Reddit and on FetLife in an effort to find a fun normal kinkier/sub-leaning in bed woman to mesh with IRL

I don't like to do prolonged texting and not into online stuff. Let's meet socially somewhere public with no expectations to see if we click then decide after that if we'll get together in private for more or not.. As a man I don't jump into bed with any willing woman so I don't expect you to. Attractive and same kinks isn't enough for me, I need to feel some energy/vibe otherwise I know it won't be fun to be honest

BTW I don't reply to generic messages from empty profiles when someone doesn't give me basics on them especially given the detailed posts I do. I'm not thirsty, I won't bring any random person over to my place. I may have a higher sex drive but I'm still discerning, and I prefer to meet first socially to vet eachother.. more if we feel mutual interest..