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34 [M4F] #USA #Anywhere - Are you ready for marriage and starting a family?
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PsPsPsPsHereCat is a male age 34 looking for a female in USA
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I grew up in a very traditional home. Both of my parents are still married, deeply in love with each other, and instilled principles in me from a very young age that have helped shaped me into the man I am today. Kind and patient, warm and funny, empathetic and introspective, feeling happiest being a dominant yet paternal type of man.

My entire life I have taken care of the people that I love, ultimately knowing my life’s journey will lead to having a family of my own that every ounce of money and drop of emotion will be happily poured into. Every decision that I make, and thought I have, is shaped around who I want to be as a husband and father. 

Family is the bedrock of society and my family means everything to me, and if you feel the same way then we are off to a good start! At this point in my life I am not interested in any relationship that is not ultimately headed towards marriage and starting a family, and soon. If you are not ready to get married and start a family within the next year or two max, and are actively pursuing that in who you talk to and how you think about your future, we will not be a good match. 

My whole life this is all I have wanted but finding someone to have it with means, at least for me, not sacrificing to get there. I know what I want and I would rather be patient until I find the right person than rush down the aisle just to check the long awaited box.

What I need is a woman who feels happiest in a submissive, but complimentary, role with me as a dominant father-figure type. Emotionally available and no walls or barriers keeping you from sharing your thoughts, feelings, and emotions. If you have no experience, or minimal, when it comes to dating or sexual exploration... that is even better. 

My own mother and my friend's wives are fantastic at making a house feel like a home and seemingly little traits like that make a big difference to me. Same goes for a love for baking and cooking. My family has a lot of recipes collected over the years and generations, I want that trend to continue. Seeing my wife chatting with my mom in the kitchen as she learns some of our family recipes, and bonding with her through that, is the kind of fairytale that puts a smile on my face.

As far as appearances go, I have always been told I am attractive by the people around me and have no issue chatting up strangers to get a number... but the thing is that has never led me to find the 'one' for me, so I am trying this out to see if writing all of this stuff out will work out better.

Surface level for you, I like short girls, good shape with minimal body fat, perky and plump features, and femininely stylish.

Sexual chemistry is very important to me. I would be lying if I said I don't have a high sex drive and need physical, and emotional, intimacy every day. In the past I have had many relationships where I feel like I am giving lots of love and affection without receiving an equal amount in return. Some of these experiences were with women who had reasons to be distant and for others it was not their personality type. All of that helped me realize that I need, not just want, a woman who is warm and carefree with her love. It’s something that gives you joy to express, loving me is another way of loving yourself because every investment in me is an investment I will make in you. 

I am posting here specifically because I also don’t want a vanilla relationship. I have not had a vanilla relationship for the past 15 years and as time goes on, I find myself becoming more and more kinky.

What that means in practice is a rather long and explicit conversation that I would rather have once we get to know each other. I will only say that being with me requires a completely open mind and willingness to explore and try new and adventurous things. Not just a willingness, but an eagerness. I get off on my partner getting off, I smile when she smiles, and I am looking for a woman who feels the same way. 

If you read all of this, please take the time to write a reply that lets me know you did and you are serious. Also, do you prefer waffles or pancakes?

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