Hi!

Thanks for dropping in. I'm Jones, it's a pleasure to meet you, albeit online to start. But who knows where it might lead!?

I guess I should share a little about me. Let's start with the vanilla...

I'm 35, and live in the UK. I've always been a hugely driven and ambitious person, but one who appreciate the balance in life and the need for fun and enjoyment! I feel I've got a good sense of humour - I love making people laugh more than anything. I can be cheeky, witty and enjoying pushing the limits a little, but always in a good natured way! I'm very outdoorsy - I love to run, hike and climb when the chances come. Very active, I play sport 2-3 times a week and am hugely competitive. Other then that I love to travel (ticking off new countries every year) as well as occasionally write (mostly smut but the occasional non smutty short story!).

Hope that gives you a flavour of me. Onto the kink side then..

I've been immersed in the D/s lifestyle since turning 17 and never looked back. It's not so much something I enjoy, rather part of who I am... As a Dom I practice patience and understanding, but do have a strict side too (be warned!). I enjoy structure, rules and a LOT of communication. After care is a given, I'm not looking for something meaningless - I want connection.

I'm a big believer in the brain being the most important sexual organ. I love mind games, mental fuckery and generally getting into someone's head (and them in mine!)

My kinks are many and varied but to give you an idea...

• TPE
• Orgasm control / denial
• Impact play
• Sensory play
• Humiliation
• Bondage, rope etc
• Rules, structure
• Anal
• Pet play
• DD/lg
• And much more...

So, what am I looking for? Like I said I'm looking for a connection. Someone who I cherish as a friend as much as I adore as a sub. I'm looking for someone who mentally challenges me, who pushes my buttons knowing what it might mean. I need someone I can talk life with as much as kink - a friend and partner, as well as a submissive.

Simple no?

Happy to include long distance and online initially but hoping for someone I can actually meet one day too!

That's about it, drop me a message or a chat and include the word 'Cupcake' in the message so I know you've read this essay!

Talk soon,