I am a 25 years old Dom, on top being a STEM student with a passion for literature, philosophy and psychology, all sides that come up very much in my human relationships and connection as I like deep and meaningful conversations that are away from my studies field in my free time. I am pretty much looking for another connection just like that, but one that is also deeply based on kink. Fingers crossed that you like detailed and long posts and read them all until the end because I will write about what and why I am looking for one here. I will start saying I am single and not looking to build an harem nor particularly looking for more than one partner. Do not get the poly/non ethical monogamous title to mislead you. I am looking for a poly partner, or at least a partner that is open to have other connections (preferably in person) because in my experience makes things way easier to last long term and align very well with my idea of domination and tasks (think about hotwife/vixen kind of relationships) while at the same time not getting in the way of the bonding we can build. Talking about building one because BDSM without trust and a real connection is pretty much a lie, so let me be clear and say I am not interested in one time stands, in entertaining you in just an horny evening, not interested in people who are not really in the life style and will dodge any sort of conversation. I do like having fun, but I want something lasting right now. My dominant headspace comes in two forms. A gentle and caring one which is very similar to a caregiver side. I like giving attention and this is a fundamental for me. I want a partner that enjoys this, that is clingy, is emotionally available to actually form a bond. The other side is way more primal, given by arousal. I turn stricter, rougher, sadistic, loving control and the idea of free use. Being with me would feel like a rollercoaster of these two sides back and forth. I want the lust that comes from feeling someone close and at the same time having naughty thoughts for her. This is just a starting point and nothing is mandatory; I know exactly what I want but a dynamic like that is built, not found. Should be quite a given, but I am also extremely respectful of set limits and boundaries. In your other relationships, I do not want to get in the way emotionally. This is important to be said. If you're not exactly poly or still single but feel like this resonates, I would still be very happy to talk. More about me, I am looking for an online connection but I do not perceive online as just an hobby or something less important. I am open to any timezone as long as things work. I would say I am handsome if that matters, while also being a good time to say my preferences on attraction are mostly influenced by non-physical qualities. Physical attraction plays its role for sure, but I want more than that. Your first message is your best calling card, do not be shy and tell me about yourself and what you liked in this post. I appreciate it and take it as a good sign for a nice conversation.