I'm a healthy older nerd, raised on punk rock and ocean spray from Los Angeles to the PNW. I always got along with women much more than men, thanks to all the WILD SHIT I would hear while doing homework in my mom's hair salon, and lost out on a lot of the traditional male hobbies growing up. I had to figure a lot out on my own. Thankfully it made me very self sufficient and allowed me to think and learn for myself. Now, I'm not saying I'm incapable of holding a hammer, or framing a doorway. The dude that raised me made sure of that, in between summers tossing hay bales, and chasing girls.

As for hobbies, I'm a golfer, I like road trips, cinema (TV and movies), COMEDY, music from almost every genre, keeping my yard clean, good coffee, losing myself in a crowd, exploring new cities, the desert, and singing to the music. Not to mention I'm a FUCKIN NERD. Yeah that's right. Video games, tabletop, card games, comics. SHAMEFULLY UNASHAMED.

I'm a pragmatist, yet I enjoy challenging myself for the sake of it when things get a little boring. I'll use a map, but only to find my way after a detour. I'm a competition junky, but put a lot of energy into sportsmanship, and get really into being a coach when the stakes are low. On the flip-side of that I enjoy getting my ass handed to me and always come back for more. I learn by doing, and losing is a part of winning. SO FIGHT ME ON SOMETHING. BRING IT

My goal in life is to help people. Be it teaching them how to get better at a hobby we share, being an open ear, assisting as a special olympics coach, or just helping an old man out of his chair when I see him wobbling trying to stand up. I'm a very positive person, a pacifist, and I like thinking outside of the box.

In reality, I'm a romantic, and I'd rather not waste my time anymore on something that goes nowhere. I AM NOT just looking to fuck. I want it all. I want marriage. I want kids, (even if they're not mine. With the right person that shit just doesn't matter.) I want the cute dates and the birthday surprises, and the playful staring contests, and the bickering over who played Spider-man the best. (IT'S A SPECTRUM. You can't act like they weren't all great at their role for what they were given.)

So here it is. I'm looking for a spicy little sweetheart with sharp claws, a good heart, a love for helping others and someone who still craves submission. Of course I have a dominant side. And I think a good partner for me wants the push and pull. Show me your sharp tongue so I can “retaliate”. Pick on me so I can pick on you. Let's challenge each other. Build each other up. Find each other's soft spots. Find trust. Find respect. And then take over the FUCKING WORLD.