Hi.

It’s been so long since I’ve had the connection a D/s dynamic can create. Im desperate for it. I tried dating vanilla and I tried casual dynamics, both have been fun and okay but not fulfilling.. at all. So im here again, hoping to make a meaningful connection.

I want to eventually be in a committed, long term, monogamous relationship with a Dominant man.

*For the love of god please do not be married or attached in anyway if you reply to my post. Im begging you.

Anyways, my hope is for our dynamic to present itself as “normal” to the outside world but lots of kink and rules that only we know about.

I do want to be married one day and open to having more children… I am a single mom…

Marriage is something that I *really want and do not want to entertain anyone who is hesitant or simply not interested in eventually being married.

I crave intimacy. I value openness. Id love to meet someone who is comfortable with their kinks, discuss darker fantasies w/o judgment. A man who is emotionally available and wanting and capable of being vulnerable too.

I have lots of kinks - mostly on the darker side.. I do have chill and regular kinks too but I would love to connect with someone who may be in to more hardcore kink.

I believe that sex is important and definitely need someone im compatible with sexually.. but for me to even get to that point I need to feel a connection beyond being horny…

Im ready to submit and serve and in return would love to feel safe, protected, and understood.

Im craving something that leans more TPE M/s but really dont want to put too many restrictions on what I want because I want to be open.

I am gonna mention that I deal with an eating disorder, depression and insomnia. In therapy, but these things do affect how I respond to life and just uh dont want to waste anyones time..

I hate chatting on reddit so id love to text pretty quickly if we connect. Im not downloading any fucking apps to talk to you on.

Deal Breakers: Drugs, unemployed, married, out of state, terrible communication.

5’7, brown, 165lbs

I know it’s not the sexiest post but I want more than just kinky sex. Shit is boring when there’s no trust or connection.