Hiyas! I'm very much on the pleasure dom side of things, and the hottest thing for me is helping a girl cum. For me, even though I am on the dom side, this doesn't necessarily purely come from that - a huge part of it is that I am extremely pro sex
I've always been very big on the idea that people should have a great time masturbating, and get a whole bunch of orgasms whenever they want. The more the merrier as far as I'm concerned - and getting to be very involved in that is extremely fun for me
Its always been flexible for me how much I like to be involved - because really what I'm looking for is to help the other person cum super hard, and its very variable in terms of how much being dom'd someone wants. Sometimes its just gentle encouragement, all the way up to total ownership, and its all good
But putting aside the dynamic, there's another aspect of this which is that its really hot to take responsibility for a partners orgasms. Not from an orgasm control perspective - though maybe thats an element - but just from the perspective of wanting to make sure that they feel good. After all, it probably feels better when someone else is helping, or doing it for you - so what if that were always true?
That leads to the topic for today that I think is very hot. Its not a sub/dom thing, but what if neither of you were allowed to masturbate? Not because its a dom/sub thing, but because you just genuinely both take responsibility for making sure that the other person gets what they need - because you want them to feel good. After all, its a pretty core need to cum, and getting to help is wonderful
So if you feel turned on and wet? Of course I'll help, that's my job. I'll push you right over the edge, and get you that release that you need. You don't need to do it yourself anymore
On my end of this, the thought is hot as well - but I will say please don't try and domme me too much. There's a fine line between someone helping out like this and that which is probably worth discussing, so if you want to chat about it please give me a shout!
Anyway, hopefully you find this just as hot as I do, and I'd absolutely love to hear from you, say hi literally any time you see this. I'm looking primarily for people who are 24
Kinks: You having a nice time, helping you cum, giving instructions, mild spanking, thigh humping, mild degradation/praise, dirty talk, good conversation, women watching porn
Limits: CnC, choking, cheating, people with partners (even if they know), Daddy, breeding
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