Hello! I’m James, and I’m 32 from the US.

TLDR: I’m new to the dom and sub dynamic but am very eager to learn and very eager to please. I'm looking for a gentler dom that is okay with building trust with me over time so that I can develop more confidence to submit more and be exposed to kinks I didn’t know I had.

What I'm looking for: I know that I need a dom that is patient and gentle because I am too inexperienced to jump right into an extreme dynamic. I definitely want to push my own boundaries but I'm not comfortable doing that alone. I love affection and I just want to please, be guided, pushed, and praised for my efforts. I want you to be proud of me and I want to be proud of pleasing you. I want to be your perfect good boy.

Important: I will not show you my face until we’ve built some amount of trust. There are too many people out there that want to blackmail or take advantage of people for me to feel comfortable showing my face. That being said, once I feel like we’ve built enough trust together I have no problem with showing my face.

Appearance: I'm 6'0”, 160lbs. I have a lean but muscular and athletic build. I’ve added about 10lbs of muscle over the last few months and am looking to add at least another 10 more. I have light brown hair and haze eyes, I have a short beard and am almost never clean shaven (I feel like I look way to young when I do).

Who I Am: I work a pretty boring and flexible job so I am available most of the time. Outside of work, I workout 4 times a week and run 2-3 times a week as well. Living an active lifestyle is very important to me. I enjoy hiking, spending time with friends, as well as training and spending time with my dog. I’m big into sports, specifically F1 and American football. I am also looking for someone who is okay with some sort of relationship outside our dynamic too. Why can’t we be friends too?

NSFW Interests: I can be rather vanilla but I’d love to have a don who is patient and willing to help me explore kinks that I didn’t know I have. Below are a few that are big winners for me.

Exhibition: There nothing that turns me on more than showing off. I love the idea of someone else watching and enjoying my body.

Praise: Naturally stemming from my love of exhibition, I love to be praised. The more praise I receive the more adventurous I become. Telling me I did a good job or am a good boy will go along way with me.

Jerk Off Instructions: This was the first kink that I figured out I have. I love being told what to do and how to do it. This is hugely what lead to me wanting to try out a sub dynamic.

Limits: Scat, blood, forced bi, feminization, cross dressing, extreme humiliation, CBT, cum eating, findom (I’m for sure not giving you any money). I'm sure there are more but these are the easy ones that I'm aware of.

Finally: I'd love to chat and see if we might be a good fit. Let me know what your favorite color is. Thank you for your time!