Before we get into the fun (sex) stuff I want to start by telling you that I'm looking for something long term. I want a boyfriend in the streets and a kinky MF at home. I want nights staying in, cooking together and being silly, I want to travel and hike and go on adventures. I want my friends to think the world of you and for you to charm them and make them laugh. I wanna feel giddy about you, shy sometimes even, y'know?

Obviously this means that you need to be local, Seattle would be ideal but I don't mind crossing the bridge to the east side for the right person lol

Sex stuffffff I'm a switch which is fun but confusing at times. For me it's kind of 70/30 split, sub/Dom respectively. You'd think this would make me kind of a brat but that's not really the case, I've never actually tried being bratty. More than anything I just want to please my partner, no matter what role I'm in. I'm not going to get into the myriad of kinks that interest me, instead I'll list the things that I'm NOT into: Anything illegal, any type of bathroom play, breath play, blood, degradation, canes, permanent marks, that thing where they tie up boobs all tight, that thing where girls make dumb cross eyed faces when they cum, I'm not into calling anyone Daddy either.

Physically I'm pale and blond with green eyes, about 5'5", and relatively fit. I've got my emotional shit handled by now, I know most, if not all of my personality flaws and actively work to better myself. I'm creative and love to paint and knit and make terrariums. I've got two cats and my own spot that I love to make cozy.

Given my dating history apparently my type is tall(er than me), dark and handsome, I'm definitely a face girl and prefer a dad bod to a skinny guy. Not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just that my inner cave woman worries that they won't make it through the winter. I find kind, calm, funny, straightforward, capable men so attractive.

I know what a long shot this is, assuming you're going to snoop my profile you'll see how long I've been at this.

Please be at least 33 and no older than 41, in the greater Seattle area and looking for the same things as me.