Hi, thanks for reading my post! I'm dating a lot more intentionally this year so decided to make this post. I am looking for to long term and consistent dating, but open to shorter term flings too.

About Me

I am 30 years old and live in Manhattan, I have dark brown hair and light brown / hazel eyes. I moved to the US from England so not American, I will be living here long term and no intentions of leaving the US.

My work is in science / research at a university lab, I am being intentionally vague and would love to chat about this as it's something I am really passionate about.

I love to workout, listen to music (playlist for every occasion) and learn languages (currently working on Spanish). I would describe my body type as athletic.

My Ideal Domme

In day to day life I am talkative, conifdent and out going. In private I have another side to me which I would like to share with the right peron. My ideal domme is someone caring and kind who I can meet and laugh with. I am very comfortable with my submissiveness, but also private and it's important to me I share that with the right person.

My Femdom Preferences

I am submissive and happy to take the top role from time to time to satisfy my partner. I classified my kinks into groups because each one of my 'kinks' exists for the reason of ultimately making me a better boy and sub for my partner.

Being vulnerable for my partner: I think this is the main reason I like being submissive.

• CFNM, being nude while my partner keeps their vanilla clothes on.
  • A really lovely scene for me where I am exposed but my partner is dressed. Obviously puts me in a position of vulnerability. Incidentally I have found this is the best time to discuss any lingering relationship issues or unhappiness that might exist. Bonus points if you can make me feel really flustered (not hard to do).
• Collar and leash, putting on a collar and having my partner hold the leash.
• Keeping a daily diary and sharing it with my partner.
  • Gives my partner a sense of what's going on in my head. I'd prefer to do this only if we are together seriously.
• Orgasm control: my partner deciding where, when and how I get to cum.

My partner teaching me how to be better:

• Spanking
  • Usually paired with a short conversation before/after about why what I did or said was wrong or broke the rules somehow. Bonus points if you can make me cry (I very rarely do and it's such a shame).
• Chastity
• Rough sex of any kind (see point below).

Role reversal: Reversing the traditional gender dynamics

• Pegging - I have done this before and know how to be spotless clean.
• Looking pretty for my partner
  • Firstly looking well groomed and dressing really well, feel free to be critical when necessary with appropriate punishments.
  • Secondly, although I don't identify as trans in any way, I have found it can be really fun and affirming for the dom/sub dynamic to dress up a little for my partner. Things include: open crotch underwear (nice eyecandy for my partner), and experimenting with crossdressing.

I am also open to a LOT more but boiling it down to the most important. 'NSFW' (nothing too crazy) pic of me here: https://i.redgifs.com/i/differentpessimistictamarin.jpg