Hello there! Thank you opening my post! Down below you will find my About Me, What I am Looking for, What I am Not looking for, BSDM switch roles, and additional information.

About me: * 31 years old; Non-binary (Demi-boy) Black/African American * I have brown eyes; short, black curly hair, stand at 6’ 1”, and am little chub around the tummy * INFJ; Enneagram 9w1, Gemini/Leo/Gemini * Neurodivergent (Autistic & ADHD) * Pan (Pansexual and Panromantic) and AroAce (Greysexual and Greyromantic). For me, attraction being reciprocated and having emotional connections are keys for me to feel attraction. * My personal stances on sex and romance are sex-ambivalent, romance-favorable. Politically, I am Sex-Positive. * I work as a success coach in higher education by day helping student achieve their definition of success. * I would consider my self conscientious, growth-minded, compassionate, kind, sensitive, justice-oriented, curious, congenial, and self-aware. * I have many rotating interests. I love to learn a lot and considered a jack-of-many-trades. My special interests include: music, LGBTQ education, Psychology theories (specifically related to personality and strengths psychology) to name a few. * In my free time, I play euphonium and participate in a local community wind band. * I am Ethically Non-Monogamous and consider myself to polycurious, leaning towards Solo Polyamory and non-hierarchical polyamory.

What I am looking for (Relationally): * Gentle and caring relationships that have a strong emotional connection and intimacy. * Uses clear and honest communication * Can work through conflict and disagreements * A soft/gentle mommy willing to help me grow and support my goals, especially embracing my inner child. (Age Range for a mommy between 25-35) * A little who would like support in their goals, development, and growth from a developing Soft/gentle Daddy Dom. (Age Range for a little between 25-35) * Has personal and professional goals working towards sustainable career * Prefer femininity but am open to androgyny and masculine presenting individuals. * Someone preferably nearby in Northern Virginia or in the D.C. area. Bonus if you are in Reston/Herndon/Loudoun area. * Knows about Cg/l (Caregiver/Little) dynamics, has experience with BDSM and kink,and/or can support me at kink and BDSM community events.

What I am NOT looking for (Relationally): * Casual relationships, hookups, one-night stands, etc. * Findoms
* Someone who expects honorifics or pet names immediately (Safety is a must!) * Someone who drinks, smokes, uses drugs, or marijuana. (We must be Sane) * Someone who does not ask before initiating (Everything MUST be consensual and ongoing consent is sexy!) * Someone who is not willing to meet/chat synchronously either by video chat, voice calls, or in-person; or asynchronously by text message or voice memo * Dishonesty * A little who is looking for complete dependence. I am human too with responsibilities as well. * Wants sexual kink all the time. I am trying to build this into a lifestyle, which means we will need balance.

Little (Middle) Boy Headspace * My age ranges from 9-15 years old * I am an age dreamer (meaning I voluntarily regress) * I want to collect more stuffies and Squishmallows (I have two so far) * I am a cuddle/snuggleslut * I am good boy and loved being praised for being one. * I love kisses, gentle doting, and being told I am safe and being nurtured. * Wants to be able to enjoy nostalgic things like 2000s TV shows, movies, video games, and activities from childhood * I love to be silly and recite my favorite lines from my favorite shows. * I can be shy, but want to share my voice with confidence * Can be non-sexual and sexual in this headspace * Loves the springtime when its warm * Very repulsed by yelling, degradation, hitting, or harshness, or roughness of any kind.

Soft/Gentle Daddy Dom Role: * I have never been a Daddy before but desire to be one to a little in need. I have been doing my homework and know the basics. * I believe in helping my little achieve their goals. I do my best to actively listen to what is important to them and what makes them special. I provide gentle, supporting guidance towards their goals. * I am a nurturing daddy and love it when my little asks for my help and knows that they can depend on me. * Looking to help support a sweet little. Trust is of the utmost important and I hope I can provide that to them.

Additional Notes: Let’s discuss my fetishes and kinks interests privately. I would like for us connect together for in-person dates and meet-ups to get to know each other and see if we are a great fit. Please DM/PM me with your general location, age, what spoke out to you in my profile, and your experience with CG/l. As a bonus, share one way you want to grow this year! Hope to talk to you soon!