Thanks for checking this post out. I’m not exactly sure where I’ll start but I definitely want to put as much effort into the post as I can, always believe you get the effort back that you put out.

A little about what I’m looking for in an overall sense: I’m ok the hunt for something long term and while this is a kink subreddit I’m looking for somebody to be my partner in more than just a dynamic. I’ve met a couple people from here who I really meshed with on all levels and was with for a while and I’m looking for that again.

A little about me outside of kink: I’m a 24 year old guy with a wide range of interests. I love nature and exploring it, I love seeing new places in the world and taking in different cultures, but also im very much a homebody and a nerd too. It’s a weird mix admittedly. Very much a hopeless romantic and I’ll be damned if I don’t gun for the most sentimental person you’ve met award. I’m a pretty dedicated and affectionate person. Hobbies generally range from video games to traveling to reading cooking. Oh and I love animals!

A little about you (ideally): so I’ve never felt that I’ve had a type but I do also know I love the clingy, the romantic, the gentle and sweet, and the type of person who wants to be taken care of and likes to spend as much time as they can with their partner. Hopefully you’re nerdy also but it’s not been a requirement for me in the past, I also love anyone with a sense of adventure.

A little about the kink: most of why I’m online searching is just because it’s hard to meet somebody down the road from you into the kinks you are and also compatible outside of them. I’m a dom as the title mentioned and have been in a few different dynamics, from M/s to DDLG to petplay to everything in between. But just like with the rest of my laundry list of kinks that I can share in the DMs, I’m not someone who needs every box checked off, and somethings are even mutually exclusive. So generally speaking if you’re a sub you’re already as compatible as I require. Or course I’d love to discuss whatever your individual preferences and ideals are and see if they line up but I’d put money on them doing so.

A little bit about what I do and don’t like: I mostly just want somebody who’s dedicated and wants to make things work if they line up. Communication is something I may or may not have a degree in and I value it in every way, from communicating your feelings and inner needs, to just having the drive to put effort into a conversation, as they’re not 1 way streets!

A little about deal breakers: I generally don’t have any big deal breakers I can think of, at least not in the sense of “oh you’re X thing? It won’t work” but I understand other people do so I always love to hear them soon after talking!

A little about where and when: so lastly the post is hard for me to pin down because if I just do online it might seem like I’m only looking for something online, or attract people who only are, and that’s not my goal, but rather it’s my starting line. I am in the US but I’m more flexible than most people you know and have my own desires to relocate, both within the US and abroad. And from experience I know you can find an amazing match from anywhere and I’d hate to miss out on anybody because I said I was only looking for somebody from my state, especially since I’m lucky enough with my job to be able to both travel and relocate easily. I think the post has gotten long enough hopefully chat soon, I can’t wait to learn a little about you!