I'm looking for someone who is willing to put in the time and effort to be known and to get to know me as well. Someone who doesn't mind speaking about themselves, who is willing to put themselves out there and say who they are and what they desire. Who will hear my thoughts on our dynamic and share their own.

For me I'm very possessive. I like caring and inflicting pain in equal measure. I'm not a true sadist but I enjoy seeing my sub cry and break down. I'm not a true daddy Dom but I like taking care of my sub and knowing about their everyday. I don't solely focus on pleasure but pushing my subs limits and seeing her cum over and over is something I find great joy in. I don't interfere in my subs life but I claim my space in it and demand it no matter what.

I want to find a sub who can make me the center of her attention. Who can direct her affections towards me unconditionally. I want to find someone who is looking for a reason to stay rather than a reason to go. For me once I make someone mine I hold on for dear life and let her know I'm not going anywhere. I would like to find someone who can make such a commitment.

I've spoken to more than a few subs online who don't know what they want, who don't say anything, who don't put in any effort.

If you're looking for a transactional conversation where I give you tasks and you do them in your own time with no connection established this isn't for you. I want to know you and do things to you that reflect your needs and desires and explore you.

I don't care if you're inexperienced. If you don't know what you're doing. If you've never done this before. All that doesn't matter. As long as you're capable of listening and putting in an effort. That matters more than years of submission and remembering to say sir.

Primarily, I'm looking for keep this online but we can meet and explore in person as well after getting to know each other a little. I ask for audio as a minimum especially if you're not comfortable with sharing photos or video. If you can't do audio please don't bother.

I want to know you and I want to know who are so we can build that trust and start our journey. I ask for a lot but I also give a lot in return. I can be strict, I can be a bastard but I can also be caring and nurturing. That's why I prefer someone who can make time for me and can make me the focus of their affection.

If you've read this far and can follow basic instructions send me an introduction about yourself and be ready to talk about who you are and what you're looking for. I'll be here and I'm not going anywhere so if you're going to message make sure you don't either.