My interest in kink started over 15 years ago, so I have a wide knowledge of it despite not having practiced any aspect of it live with another person. To this point, it has all been through self-pleasure and self-bondage. I grew up in a very conservative town and family, so I wasn't able to fully be myself. My bigger size combined with having a submissive/kinky side to me has resulted in me still being a virgin (yes, you can be a virgin at my age). I've used toys and other items, but have never been lucky enough to experience all that this lifestyle holds in real life.

I'm looking for a Dom/Domme to train me in submission and the lifestyle, or potentially someone to just have fun with. I’m also ok with a couple if they are both involved. We can start off online, but I would like to move to in person.

Here are some of my kinks: orgasm control (forced and denial), bondage, gags, breast play (including milking and Hucow), anal hooks, anal training, free use, impact play, collars, fucking machines, sybian, CNC, oral, sensory deprivation, spread eagle position, rough play, remote controlled vibrators, multiple penetration, and lots of other things.

Things that I am not interested in: 24/7 slave, bathroom play, public humiliation, having my face spit on or slapped, feet/shoe fetishes, daddy/ddlg play, age play, needles, sadism/masochist, significant pain, extremely high heels, polyamory, and exhibitionism.

It would be ideal if you are located in the Raleigh-Durham area, but I am willing to travel a little bit for the right person. So cities like Greensboro, Charlotte, Asheville, Wilmington, Roanoke, and Norfolk are options, or maybe even further for the right fit.

If you are ok with a BBW (5’6”, 275lbs, actively losing weight) and not put off by a virgin , please send me a message/chat. One liners will be disregarded; if you are really interested, please convey that by sending a message with some thought put into it.

Look forward to hearing from you!