Hello!

I am a femdom who is seeking a TRUE femdom/sub dynamic. In this dynamic, a subs needs and desires are equally important and must align with mine. For me, my ultimate desire is to feel worshiped, empowered, and adored. Therefore, I want my sub to find their pleasure and happiness in making me feel this way and fully submits in order to do so. With this being said, I need a sub who is looking for more than simply sexual gratification and pleasure. I lead with ensuring our needs and desires align and prefer to communicate and establish a connection. This means not jumping into anything sexual. This is why I’m open to both online and IRL, because the ultimate goal is not simply sexual gratification but rather us finding pleasure and being fulfilled in the way we need within this dynamic. For IRL, I first and foremost need to feel safe with my sub and I want my sub to feel safe as well. I also need to have connection and attraction for intimacy. With all of this said, I will list what I also find pleasurable:

Degrading and humiliation - I want to emphasize here that we will communicate on your limits, determine a safe word, and talk about after care Rewarding my sub Being worshipped in ways I don’t have to ask for or direct my sub for (unexpected gifts, compliments, etc.) Making my sub ask for permission and receiving punishment when they don’t comply

I am not going to include specific sexual kinks as I said I’m not leading with this. I am extremely open-minded. As I said, we will not be jumping to anything sexual. This also means pictures and videos, as I need to trust my sub with those especially if they are not faceless.

Prefer an experienced or well informed sub whose understands this dynamic, but I am open to those who are new and curious to learn and explore.

If all of this sounds good to you, message me :)