Hello and hope all is well. Seems I am a haystack looking for a needle...or something like that. So, I am a pretty stable and reliable person..good career and passionate. I am also a parent. I am here with sincere intent in finding something that will last. BDSM, to me, is PART of the relationship ...not THE relationship. Below is some criteria I wanted to share. 1. Online only relationship for forseeable future. 2. Relationship comes first. I am not "in the lifestyle" nor do I care to be but I am knowledgeable and educated. I am a soft Dom by nature and I like control and have had these relationships before. 3. Power dynamic is prominent part of our relationship but not the entire relationship. I am a switch although almost all my experience is being the Dom. I am naturally suited to that but can be swayed for right person. 4. The word "relationship" is mentioned various times already. I have the capacity for affection and will keep looking until I find the right person. I am not interested in flings or girls desperately just wanting an empty "Daddy" kink. 5. I am in a bad marriage. There is always a catch, isn't there? I will be upfront as I am here and I understand if you are not OK with the circumstance. It should be known I am not the cliche bored husband...I want a connection because I do not have one at home.

So, hopefuly that helps. You will find me to be intuitive and very considerate. I move at the pace that works because I don't want forced..I want what is right. Physically, people often say I look 10 years or more younger. I am on the thinner side. I don't want to get into kinks and how this will all work here. I do that and it tends to attract the wrong people. I am very open minded and like many things. We can discuss privately and that can be catored to us. Yes, it will be satisfying and exciting. Chemistry is most important. I do,prefer someone in their twenties to thirties that is looking for something similar. I don't have a type really...just a nice person I am attracted to Just want a nice person that I am attracted to and can trust and care about and feel that in return. Perhaps it should also be stated..I aspire for this to be with one person. I want to give my attention to one person. If we are right together, I could not have interest in anyone else. That is the point. Look forward to chatting...maybe we will hit it off!