Hello Reddit, I hope this post finds you well.

This is, like all personal posts, a shot in the dark to find my person. It's hard to know what needs to be said, what should be implied, and what should be left to discover for later. But here goes:

The written word is important to me, I love reading and I generally get through 30-70 novels a year, plus a bunch of papers, articles and blogs... and erotica. I think the erotica I've been reading since I was a teenager provided me with the perspectives that make me the open and understanding person that I am, as well as being the seeds for many of my kinks. I also write, mostly poetry but also nanowrimo once, and fanfiction, and a nonfiction book on management, and I have notebooks of ideas for vignettes and stories. My other big "fiction" experience is Dungeons and Dragons, which I have 20 years experience in playing and DMing. Now you might be thinking "wait a minute, shouldnt this post be in dirtypenpals or something?" And maybe you are right. I think this post belongs here because I am not looking for a roleplay partner for kinky story time, but instead a "co-author" to imagine, and then write into reality, a life.

At this point you might (very reasonably) be thinking that I am a big nerd with no experience of what I speak, after all that's a lot of DnD and no mention of BDSM. Counterpoint: I am tall and kinda funny and charming enough and I've lived in places where an Australian accent "opens doors" so I have done most of what I'll be talking about below in the kinks list.

What shall we write into reality together? Ideally, from both my and your family's perspective, it will look like a normal successful high achieving life. A business or a book series or something else legitimate that explains the money and the travel we will be doing. Behind the scenes it will look more like the erotica we grew up reading, and behind that scene will be us cozied up in the writing nook coming up with the next business/trip/scene.

Maybe this seems crazy to you in the "too optimistic" way, but I have friends who are doing this who organically met when they were young and just clicked. I wasn't so lucky and neither were you, so let's make our own luck.

If it's not clear I'm looking for a clever girl (Jurassic park pun intended) who likes to write, who wants a partner to work towards their perfect life with, who is sweet and romantic like me, and is also a submissive who likes to do kinky things and especially have a sir who will do kinky things to them.

I've posted on here years ago with another account and that turned into a 6 month situation-dynamic that was fun but not fulfilling, this time I am looking for a relationship and a dynamic as a whole package.

Kink list aka why I am not just putting the sfw version of the above on a dating profile: Shibari and other bondage (I want to train up to suspension shibari) Sloppy oral/cock worship Anal Obedience (mostly the gorean poses but without the literal slavery) Collars Hair pulling Occasional outfit control and public play Orgasm denial/control/overwhelm Light spanking/impact play

I'll admit, you being naturally a cuckquean sounds like it would be amazing, but as long as you're up for the occasional ffm threesome then I wouldn't know what I'm missing as that's only ever been a fantasy (unlike the above). Similarly I've tied up people in ways that are close to predicament bondage but I've never set out to do a predicament bondage scene so if that's also on your bucket list then bonus.

You might be double taking, where is the petplay? I don't mean a literal kitten, thats just the other half sir to me, sub/Dom, slave/master, kitten/sir It's a nickname basically. I've no experience with petplay unless you count one sub of mine who had a tail plug, but I don't. I'm not against it but it doesn't jump out for me as an exciting thing, but maybe you can change my mind about that.

Limits: piss, shit, vomit, knives, breath play, being called daddy or any other incest roleplay

About me 186cm or about 6'1” Long Blonde hair, blue eyed, some beard. Hair and beard are very much up for changes so get in quick if you want a say. Currently about 96kg and dropping

About you Younger than me (I've tried older and it wasn't for me) Size difference kink goes here: smaller than me Blonde or willing to go blonde Smart as a whip Left as in left wing Feminist as in equal rights for everyone and not seeing that as incompatible with me dominating you in the bedroom

Online and eventual meets then relocation to mutual dream city, I am currently in Sydney

Chats or DMs work for me so feel free to send either

Hope to you hear from you soon kitten, - Sir