Here goes nothing: My first bdsmpersonals post. Believe me, I have dated offline - through friends, munches, online. And yet what I am looking for seems elusive, hardly to find and rarely reciprocrated.

That is: A playpartner, who wants to enter a longterm dynamics. Someone who excites me, whom I can shower with affection and attention, who elicits a primordial response without pursuing a romantic relationship.

Now I do understand people who are not looking for playpartners, who want romance in their life. I just happen to already have that - with someone I cannot be intimate currently, and with whom I have opened the relationship years ago. But where I fail to follow are the - multiple - people who have told me they cannot enter a purely physical relationship with someone they like as a person.

Because for me, in order to fuck you, I do not need to like you - I need to vibe with you, to connect and to be inspired by you. I know we have a connection when you become the heroine of my fantasies, a character in my erotica.

A couple words about me: I am 1,78 tall, average build, a nice smile and kind eyes (or so I have been told), and my haircolour keeps changing. Ask me what it is when you write me, then I know how far you have read! I work as a writer, and I specialize in non-fiction (the erotica is a hobby).

My favorite kink, actually, is a deep cuddle, the kind that presses the air out of your body and penetrates all layers of your skin. But I also enjoy Impact Play, Worshipping and playing with temperatures, among others. Generally, I love experimenting, and the power exchange is the basic premise which allows me to explore kinks. I generally play SSC and live in my one, i.e. can host - although I do not mind visiting playparties or renting a studio for some of the crazier ideas.

Other than that, I do enjoy museums and exhibitions. A long running fantasy or mine has been to visit a museum while my partner has to egge during bathroom breaks - just to comine some of my favorite activities. If I like you, you will probably know because I will cook for you. Preferably multiple courses. And I love live music, so any good shows coming up would be an excellent date idea.

Now, about you. Ideally, you live in Berlin or you are here frequently. You are not seeking a romantic relationship, or are in a committed one already, looking to the explore a dynamics beyond. Affectionate and a good communicator, you know your boundaries and what you want. If you now also have a sense of humor, i hope nothing is stopping you from sending me a chat request?