This may sound odd, but vanilla qualities take priority in my search. Not that kink isn't important, it is. It's just that I'm flexible across the d/s spectrum, within limits of course. Some may call that switch, but I try to avoid labels, on myself and on others.

I'm a quick study, academically inclined and hard working. Still single because I spent most of my time building my empire.

I believe you don't need to be religious to have good morals.

I'm emotionally stable and I'd like to think I'm a good listenerer.

I'm no grammer police, but misusing the apostrophe shows someone wasn't paying attention in school.

I look after myself by exercising, not using substances, taking reasonable precautions like sunscreen, and I take calculated risks.

I value learning and self improvement. I'm exhilarated by new knowledge and its application.

I'm open minded. I'd like to think most kinky people are. Many people are into poly, enm and the like, good for them. I'm unsure how it all works. So I'm not seeking it.

I'm hoping a like minded woman who may also find me LTR-worthy sees this. But if you're not sure about ltr but find our values align, I'm happy to hear from you too.

OK, now the fun stuff. I find many kinky activities fascinating. I won't claim to be an expert in anything, but I'm familiar with most. Unless you have an extremely narrow set of kinks, I'm likely compatible, kind of like the O-neg blood type.

My limits are permanent harm, scat, body modifications, extreme pain, blood, unsafe play practice, and anything that's considered extreme even in kink.

You? Tall, blonde and beautiful. Just kidding! Although if you are all these, great. I love drama-free and easygoing. Mentally and physically healthy. Single, wants a family, and see kink as spice to add flavour to the food we call life.

I'm open to getting to know and hopefully meeting potential matches even if it means international travel. Life's too short to settle. Don't you think?

Well, if you share the same values and believe we will get along great, I'd love to hear from you. I promise I'm not ugly 😎