Hi! Just going into this, I want to very clearly say that I want both a dynamic and a relationship with one person. I want the cutesy stuff but also the kinky stuff!!
Safe words/Communication/Trust: These are the most important things to me. You cannot have a successful dynamic without having these things in place beforehand. If you don’t think that these things are important, do not contact me.
Aftercare: This one is also SO important, when I drop, I drop HARD. And honestly, I can’t spring back to my normal self after dropping for a while. Online aftercare can look like calling, doing an activity, playing a game, doing breathing exercises, or just talking to give you some ideas of my preferences.
Calls: I LOVE calls. Hearing people’s voices is very grounding to me, and I feel way more connected to my partner when we call.
Past Experiences: I’ve had 3 doms in the past, We can talk about this more in DMs, but one of my experiences wasn’t the best. This has severely impacted my outlook on kink, however, I am hopeful that I can repair this.
Kinks/Limits: I would like to speak about kinks in DMs, as I am pretty reserved about them.
I’m Disabled: I have POTS, and hEDS. If you don’t know what these things are, Please look them up, I am not google. I can however tell you how these conditions affect me.
Structure: I would like to be held accountable for what I do and when I have to do it. ie, bedtime and other goals.
Polyamory: I am open to polyamory however it isn’t something I’m actively seeking at the moment.
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