TLDR: Nurturing/Sadistic/Controlling hybrid Dominant, looking for a submissive archetype for a D/s connection in, or near, Kingston, ONT.

About me:

I'm 34 years old, caucasian, brown hair, blue eyes, 6'1" tall, fit/active/athletic build. Clean bill of sexual health (and mental/physical health too, for that matter). A well adjusted, socialized, 'normal' guy with deep rooted desires for deviancy and depravity. In day-to-day life I enjoy outdoor activities like mountain biking or skiing. Professionally successful and a whiz in the kitchen, always cooking up my next tasty treat. As a creative, tinkerer type, you can often find me in sketching up plans for my latest kinky creation, or working away on some home renos. Speaking of which, I live alone with a dedicated 'dungeon' playspace that is always evolving. I'm originally from SW Ontario and after a year or so in the area not having come across anyone compatible with my interests or desires via the usual swiping apps, I'm diving in to more 'niche' recruitment methods.

Kinks/Interests/Desires:

I've found myself drawn to D/s, bdsm, and kink as a whole ever since my sexual awakening (relatively early on). As such, I've had quite a while to explore not only my own exhaustive laundry list of interests, but others as well. My favourite dymamics tend to have flavours of DDlg, D/s, M/s, TPE, and CNC. That being said, I do believe that every dynamic is unique, and that whatever feels natural and right inside the chemistry of those partaking in it is usually the best path to follow, as opposed to forcing something that quite evidently may not be a good fit. The foundation for a solid relationship is strong communication, and I find that to be especially true for D/s and kink pursuits.

List time.

Likes - bondage, shibari, restraints, control, training, rules, structure, tasks, accountability, orgasm control, orgasm denial, edging, forced orgasms, sensory deprivation (hoods, blindfolds, etc), confinement, caging, anal, toys, mind play, pet play, dehumanization, degradation/humiliation, clamps, impact play, sensation play, and many more.

Limits - age play, diapers, scat, blood, needles, permanent/lasting harm.

Who am I looking for?

My ideal submissive (the world rarely works when constrained to ideals, but hey, it's my ad) would: br open-minded, respond well to praise, carry an innate desire to please, enjoy the depth of intimacy that a dynamic such as this can bring, be capable of introspective thought and a strong communicator of her own wants/needs/desires, be height/weight proportionate, enjoy a healthy active lifestyle, and of course, she should feel at home writhing in situations of my own creation in my honour.

I'm an open book, so if you have questions or concerns I am always happy to chat.

Please be open to verification/swapping pictures relatively early on.

Stay safe out there.