I'm a trans guy well into transition who is just beginning to pass as a guy, but I'm still very femme and I like it that way.
What I'm looking for to start is just a friend, open to more if it develops. I have very deep seated need to submit, take pain and degredation.
Yet equally I desire love, devotion, the trappings of a happy relationship in a semi traditional sense (marriage yes- kids no)
I identify as a gay man and it's important to me.
My kinks: rather than a list I will just clarify that I love roleplay and long intense scenes, I love giving up any kind of control (but won't give it up easily- waiting for the right person) and I like giving you my pain as a sign of devotion. I like a Dom who takes pleasure in my pain but not my fear - you should be praising & reassuring me, not yelling at me or scaring me while you give me pain. I also love overstim & a Pleasure Dom who is also a sadist would be perfect for me. I have some niche kinks we can discuss in private. I have few limits with the right person.
Hard limits: blackmail/exposure, illegal, perm damage, long term orgasm denial
What I'm not looking for: men who are afraid of intimacy or commitment, Doms who want instant submission or who refuse giving me aftercare for ANY reason. Married or taken men.
Must be able to hold conversation, share pics, travel, voice verify, video call - not right away but not put off for too long either. Direct & clear communicator. If you have a broken boy/girl kink or are intrigued by certain mental or physical illnesses, have a medical or surgery kink- you go to the front of the line.
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