I’ve written different versions of this post in the past from different throwaway accounts. It’s led to some interesting interactions, but I still haven’t found Him. Here it goes again, with some updates :)

Still, there’s no shortage of men pursing me, but I want a love that is one in billions. I’ve not yet met a man that rivals me in his power, who I truly and deeply respect and admire. Who makes me want to give my all and submit to, as my equal and partner - happily ever after. A couple that is the perfect balance of masculine and feminine. My life partner, husband, best friend, Daddy and soulmate all in one.

l've realised that for true happiness I need a partner that is the same type of kinky as I am. Someone dominant and perverted, yet caring, kind and full of love. The kind that will degrade and humiliate me while stroking my hair and whispering sweet, loving words. Whose creative, twisted imagination will stretch my body and mind in unthinkable ways out of sheer love, owning your Princess entirely, mentally, physically, spiritually. You will be my protector and, above all, my carer. In return I will offer you true, unwavering devotion, total submission, and unlimited love.

Kinks aside, I am looking for a monogamous relationship, with trust, openness and honesty at the core. Outside of home, we'd come across as a successful, well-matched, happy vanilla couple that's very much in love, with no one ever suspecting the depraved things we do behind closed doors. We would enjoy every aspect of life together-building a cosy home, sharing our interests together, traveling, and making plans to build our life and family.

I am:

• Very happy, ambitious, well-educated, well-travelled. 
• Successful in my career and have a healthy social life, along side many fulfilling hobbies and projects. 
• A confident, outgoing person in my personal and professional life. 
• I come from a good family that I have a good relationship with. 
• I’m curious, intellectual, outgoing, open-minded. 
• No kids, yet. 
• I am monogamous and looking for a monogamous relationship. I’m not willing to consider ENM or polyamory, but I’m open to sharing sexual experiences with others together (threesomes, etc.), if this is something we both want.
• I’m not trying to be a thirst trap but I need to describe my appearance because I want to be sure I am your type. I’m 164cm, I have a very feminine hour glass shape, a tiny waist, big natural boobs and a big butt. I’m white with long, dark hair. I am definitely not overweight, but if you’re into skinny blonds, I’m not the one. Men find me attractive. I’m physically fit and I value my health. I take excellent care of myself. 
• I’m single because I’ve been so far unlucky to have found unhealthy men that took advantage of my empathy and dedication. I’m not jaded though; I’ve done a lot of work on myself and I’m healed, happy, ready to find my person :)
• I love the history, technology, business & finance, cooking, outdoors, animals, exercising and learning new skills even if I’m not good at it. I’m a very curious person and don’t easily get bored. I speak 3 languages, working on the 4th.
• I have high standards, and have no shame in that. I’m anything but average, and I know I’m a prize. 
• I am not French, but I live in Paris now because I’m doing my second masters degree here. It would be great if you lived here or close enough to spend a lot of time together, with a view of living together soon. I am definitely not looking for an online or distance relationship. Having lived in so many countries, I’d kind of like to stay in France when I graduate, but would be potentially open to following you somewhere else. 
• I’m not into the BDSM ‘scene’. I don’t use dating apps. I also don’t use social media. 

You are:

You’ve been searching for your soulmate, your Princess to become your entire world, to love, spoil and cherish as well as completely control & train as you see fit. A beautiful, successful wife that you’re proud to introduce to your family and friends. To experience all of life’s ups and downs with. 

• The most important thing is that you know what you want and that you’re comfortable with who you are. 
• You are successful, care about your career and are ambitious in your life, because there’s so much I want to do and accomplish. With the right person, even the sky is not the limit. I will support you in your career, projects, dreams. I will work towards them like they are my own. Nothing would make me happier than seeing you reach your goals, and accomplishing our goals together. 
• Physical attraction is important, for better or worse. I’m attracted to physically large, gently dominant, masculine men that take care of their health. I’ve tried other types, and there’s always something missing for me - I can’t help it. I’m not looking for a bodybuilder, but I would just like to be physically attracted to you. 
• Self-confident but not cocky. You’re an accomplished, successful man, but your calm confidence and kindness is the first thing people notice about you.
• You’re emotionally intelligent, self-aware, very affectionate (physically and emotionally) and a good communicator.
• You are romantically monogamous and deep down looking to find love of your life and soul mate, your true equal in this world.  But you’re skeptical at this point that I’m she even exists. You want marriage, a family, and happily ever after with a committed life partner.
• You are a caring, kinky, sexually intellectual, perverted Daddy. I am looking for a husband whose kinks include some of my favorite ones: free use, training, inspections, stretching, gaping, entire body control, bondage, CNC, pain, humiliation, and chastity (to name a only a few!). There are very few things I don’t enjoy if the context is right. My hard limits are gore, blackmail, misogyny, internet exhibitionism, polyamory, cheating, and dishonesty.

What I am looking for:

We’re two forces of nature on our own, but together, we’re entirely unstoppable.

If you earn my trust and submission, I will give you the world in return - unwavering in loyalty and devotion. You will return the same to me, your princess who is the centre of your world. Your love is expressed through copious amounts of love and affection, but also discipline, control, and masculine authority that makes my brain melt into submission. You adore spoiling me and treating me like the goddess you worship, and my deepest pleasure in life comes from worshipping and caring for you in the same way. 

You want to make my already great life even better than it already is, because you love to see me happy. Your devotion to me deeply turns me on, and continually unlocks new levels of submission from me. Absolutely nothing about my body is off limits from you. We will never get bored. 

We’ll travel the world, enjoy the outdoors, eat the most delicious food, and savour every moment of beauty together. No one knows the unspeakable acts that the exquisite power couple, who are the envy of all, does behind closed doors.

A lifetime of perversion, love, and adventure awaits. If you strictly meet the criteria above, please get in touch quoting the word Emerald to let me know you’ve fully read what I’ve written. 

[I’m entirely real and serious about what I’m looking for. I have no problem verifying that when I’m confident we’re both on the same page. Random requests for pictures or online only chatting simply won’t be returned.]