Hi there,

This may not be the most eye-catching title, since we all tend to have positive and negative thoughts about ourselves. However, there are moments when we just need to feel seen or find a sense of connection so we can let go and talk about the things we really want to discuss—without pretenses or small talk.

This is my attempt at creating that space.

I’m not very fond of online interactions due to too many bad experiences, but given how I’m never certain of where I’ll stay in my real life, online interactions statistically seem to have a better chance than my real-life relationships. To add to that, the chance of us meeting in person is quite slim (just being realistic). However, I’m not closed to the possibility if things truly progress to that point.

As for why I move around so much, I’m an ESL teacher, and I’ve always wanted to explore and travel as much as I could. That explains the moving around and uncertainty I mentioned.

I’ve had my fair share of both bad and good relationships. I have a very clear picture of what I’m looking for in a partner. To put it in general terms, I just want someone who can feel like home to me—someone I can rely on no matter what’s happening in my life or outside of it. I’d like to be that person for you as well.

Communication and honesty matter a lot to me. Forming a connection is much more important than physical attributes, but I’d be lying if I said physical attraction doesn’t matter at all—especially given the nature of BDSM. We both need to find each other physically attractive for this to work.

I’m 6’2” (190 cm) tall, with an average build leaning toward the slimmer side. I have black hair, a stubble, and a medium white complexion. (We can exchange photos once you’re comfortable.)

Things to keep in mind:

1. There will definitely be sharing of pictures, videos, phone calls, and video calls (not all explicit). However, I understand that many people may find this uncomfortable, so I just wanted to give you a heads-up.

2. Our initial chats will mostly involve me getting to know you, like a one-sided questionnaire. The questions will focus on your feelings and experiences to help me form an understanding of you—nothing about your identity or personal information. However, I would appreciate it if you could share your age when you reach out.

This post is already getting long, so I’ll end it here. Thank you for taking the time to read it.

Have a good day/night.