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30 [F4M] #SouthwesternVA - looking for something IRL, warning, long post ahead.
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NeighborhoodHuman791 is a female age 30 looking for a male in SouthwesternVA
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Traditional dating apps just donā€™t do me anymore. Iā€™m looking for something real, long term and monogamous. If youā€™re marriage minded thatā€™s even better.

Iā€™m currently bored at work so this will be a decent post. Gonna try and get everything in here that I can.

Okay. So. I am a 30 yo working professional in the hotel industry. I absolutely love my job, itā€™s the easiest job Iā€™ve ever had. I want to be able to move up in the industry but where I am currently, thatā€™s not readily accessible to me so Iā€™m looking to relocate. Yep. Thatā€™s right. I am relocatable. My entire life fits in my jeep and I can pack up at any time and move. All itā€™ll take is some gas money and maybe a hotel stay or two depending on how far you are. Bonus points if youā€™re in Florida as thatā€™s my favorite state. Iā€™d love to be able to find my happily ever after there. But. Iā€™ll get to that part later. In my free time I love to cook, bake, read and nap. I also like to cuddle with my pup as well. She and I are a package deal so you have to at minimum like dogs. Someone once asked me to rehome her and Iā€™ll never allow that to happen again. I do have some medical conditions that you need to be aware of as this will ward off some people. I do have a heart condition, a blood clotting disorder and possible lung issues. I follow closely with providers about these issues and am actively working to get them sorted. Theyā€™re not life or death but theyā€™re a nuisance and make my life difficult. We can discuss this more later on if youā€™d like. And for those of you who are curious, yes I can still have sex just fine. That seems to be a question I get a lot when I tell people about my conditions. I also suffer from your basic depression and anxiety and C-PTSD. All three of those conditions are well managed but sometimes they spiral unexpectedly. Sometimes I will not talk to anyone for days and just cocoon in my blankets and not be able to move. But that rarely happens anymore. Like I said, theyā€™re well managed. Anyways. Moving on.

Submissive/little me? I discovered I was submissive about 3 years ago through a Dom I met on tinder. He introduced me to the lifestyle and I quickly fell in love. With more research and such, I discovered I was more little than submissive, however, with time and growing older, I think Iā€™m a nice mix of both. I have had previous Domā€™s before. Neither of them being Daddyā€™s which is what Iā€™m ultimately looking for which Iā€™ll cover later as well. Little me likes stuffies, Disney movies, books, coloring and paciā€™s. Consider me a 5 year old. Independent but still needy AF. Iā€™m not into ABDL so if thatā€™s your fetish, Iā€™m just not your person. Submissive me wants someone to take control so I can just ā€œbeā€. I donā€™t want to have to think, I donā€™t want to have to do. I just want to ā€œbeā€. If you understand that then please reach out. Im a good girl. Or try my damndest to be. I donā€™t brat. I donā€™t purposefully break the rules. Etc etc.

What Iā€™m looking for in a Daddy? I need you to be tallish. I love forehead kisses. I like being feeling protected by you as well. Age range of 35-45 is where I draw the line plus or minus a few years. Please do not message me if youā€™re under the age of 30. Purple. My Daddy needs to be super duper protective, attentive and communicative. I thrive off of attention. I thrive off of communication. I wanna feel like Iā€™m your prized possession. I will earn that title too. That I promise you. Please, for the love of all things, do NOT expect me to send you sexual stuff within the first little bit of talking. That stuff comes with trust and time. I personally feel like if youā€™re a good Daddy you wouldnā€™t expect that for a little bit. But thatā€™s just me. If weā€™re out together at the mall, I want you to hold my hand at all times. Iā€™m a little, if I see something shiny or cute or even Stitch related I will wander off. Please be willing to protect me because the world is a scary place. I donā€™t wanna get lost from you in a big shopping mall. It freaks me out even when I lose a friend in Target. I need rules and structure and routine. This I do know. Without it, my life is simply chaos. Itā€™ll take some time for me to adjust but I will adjust. Letā€™s just not throw 15 rules at me please. One or two at a time, let me get accustomed to them and then we can add more. Sound good? Good.

Great. I think thatā€™s about it for now. I believe I covered a lot and my ADHD is kicking in so Iā€™m trying not to ramble all over the place here. If youā€™re interested, please respond with the color that I hid in my post so I know youā€™ve at least read to the color part. That would be a great start.

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