I’m a switch, and oh geez has it been difficult to get into any sort of consistent dynamic with a partner who can keep up with my shifting feelings. I can’t really explain it, but I go to sleep feeling submissive, and wake up feeling dominant and vice versa. There’s very little rhyme or reason to it, just constant switching every other day or so. I’m not sure that I’m looking for a very serious dynamic or relationship, but would appreciate talking to others who experience the same thing, or feel they can relate in some way or another. Not against something serious either btw, but kinda want to see where the waves take me.

I’m 30 years old, in good shape, not ripped or super fit, but not particularly overweight either. I am traditionally masculine looking and have been called conventionally handsome with a lumberjack type appearance. If you like hairy guys, then reach out!

I enjoy going to the gym, watching horror movies, writing, doing DIY and home improvement projects, and riding rollercoasters. I am currently building a home gym in my spare room, so if you have any advice there, I would appreciate that. My career is very important to me, and so I wouldn’t do anything public or that would jeopardize my work life.

Kinks wise, I mean what the heck am I not into. I enjoy romance and date nights. Real conversation and relationships that don’t feel like artificial porn plots. I do enjoy bdsm, roles, and all the fun activities that come along with it, but genuine relationships whether romantic or platonic should come first in my opinion. I am totally into most normal dominant and submissive kinks you probably see listed here all the time, and to be honest am also into more extreme ones that may not show up as often too.

Not sure what I hope or expect to gain from this, but if any of this sounded interesting reach out!