Hello - firstly, thank you for taking the time to read this post, I know there are a lot so I appreciate that. Hopefully by the time you've read it, you want to reach out but if not, that is fine, we are all human - just be nice and skip on (well, some of us aren't human but that's a separate point on this forum)

I will start with a short version ; I am Male, 29, based in the UK - currently looking to build something with at least a mid term aim, preferably long term but I get life happens, just not a one off ideally. Totally flexible on where you are on your journey or aspirations in BDSM / Kink too - we all had to learn at some point, mine was in my late teens and I have been learning for 10 years since... Location wise, I am flexible since I believe the right connection is more important in our ever increasingly connected world.

Obviously, there are two sides to every coin so I will start with my vanilla side - I work from home, UK time zone for those online viewers - my schedule is semi flexible so I tend to fit with a few different regions. I eat a healthy diet, not a huge exerciser but I do enjoy cycling more for pleasure than toning my body. I'm also quite keen to try things - I'm terrible at some, good at others but you never know if you don't try, right?

In terms of the kink side to me, I've been in and out for 10 years as mentioned before - I've been a sub, I've been a dom and flicked in between the two - competitive by nature too so often I've lost and won myself in games over the years - the thrill of the chase though can't be underestimated. I feel like I've rambled a bit so I will keep this part brief - kink wise, I am very open to discussing things, personally, I am a big fan of mutual satisfaction (unless you want orgasms all the time, hehe) - I am a big fan of pain, humiliation, prolonged nudity / clothing control and bladder control / pee play amongst others.

If this post has struck a chord with you, please reach out - it's awful lonely and cold in the UK currently so a little spark would be appreciated, thoughts to those in the world who are suffering, it being cold here pales in comparison to the poverty and suffering. And yes, since I've been asked, I did set this up Christmas day aha

Thanks and hope to hear from you