Hello out there,

Well, the title more or less covers all the needed ground, so let the red envelopes flow. Wait, what's that, you actually want to know something about the guy you're considering messaging before doing so? Picky, picky, but fine.

I'm relatively normal (for a freak), relatively freaky (for a norm) -- a generally kind, openminded, fun, stable single man in his early 40s looking for connection, intimacy, and heat. Where else better to look for a suitable match than...Reddit? That can't be right, but here I am anyway. You're here too, so you can't exactly judge.

Anyway, yes, I am into the whole Daddy thing, though I can absolutely handle a general Dom role as well. For me, it's an unbeatable combination of intensity and intimacy, and I've never found anything to hit quite the same way. I'm interested in women who're also generally kind, have good senses of humor about themselves and the stupid world in which we live, and are looking for this kind of dynamic because while they're intelligent and capable on their own, it adds something fundamental and satisfying to their lives.

I obviously have my kinks, and plenty of them, but for me a good connection is about just that, connection, more than it is a laundry list of perverse acts to check off together. Not that it's not incredibly fucking fun to do so should we find ourselves so inclined -- just let's be real people to each other as well as objects of overwhelming, unbridled, achingly sweet lust. I promise I have a million interests (music, film, cooking, eating, chilling out) and am a good conversationalist, so if any of this sounds up your alley, by all means say hi. Physically, I'm tall, bearded, white, and fit.

Preference given to local, but I'm open to online at first. Verification needed (and provided) before anything heavier happens, just because it's the internet.

Hope you find what you're after regardless.