What are you doing here? You not sure why you even reading this post, but you know something is missing in your vanilla life or relationship. You tired of being ignored. What is bdsm? What is being a sub? Vanilla relationships are boring? You want to add something more to your life.

Importantly, you are looking for a D/s relationship with an older experienced warm natured Dom, who has a great sense of humour.

You crave connection, attention, exclusivity and intimacy. Yoy want to discuss or are looking for a D/s dynamic with protocols, daily tasks and a strong Dom hand. You have so many kinks including: impact play, restraints/ rope, blindfolds, gags, nipple torture, rough sex, anal play, edge play, fear play, breath play, CNC, eye contact/speech restrictions, orgasm control, denial, sensory deprivation play, psychological play and more.

More about me: I am a respectful, caring, hardworking guy with conservative views and dad bod. Disciplined in my own life, with strict values so ideally positioned to lead and inspire your feminine needs. I have a good attitude / character with defined goals for myself so I can help mentor and coach you to set and achieve your goals for growth whether these are physical, emotional, mental or sexual kink. I am a professional person so boundaries will be need to be respected as will yours.

I have many hobbies and interests. I enjoy gym, travelling, reading, walking, coffee, street art, true crime and just binge watching a series of netflix etc. I also enjoy sports, the beach, etc or just having a good old fashion conversation about anything really.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety and consensual trust built over time.

Lets start a slow burner and explore how you feel about submission: your desires, needs for kinks, etc. Are you clingy, needy or bratty no problem I will not make you feel bad about this. Bratty is my Oreo cookie.

I am as interested in your vanilla life (work, hobbies, interests etc) as much as your sub life. Intrigued? Come chat.