Hello everyone,

I am a 40-year-old pansexual Dominant male in Chicago. I have been exploring BDSM and lifestyle for 20 years and, while I am always learning and evolving within my kink, I consider myself reasonably skilled and experienced in crafting intense and in-depth dynamics. I have a particular love of the mental side of kink, so should you contact me, please be aware that will be a heavy focus of our discussion (meaning I will probably ask you a hundred questions about who you are as a submissive and what it means to you).

I am currently looking to make connections in the kink community, whether that be as friends or something more. I would also like to eventually explore building a dynamic with a thoughtful, open, creative, and committed submissive. I'm open to something IRL, but I know that geography and life circumstances can make that easier said than found, so I'm open to exploring online as well.

I have a large myriad of kinks I enjoy exploring and always like keeping myself open to new things and new experiences. That said, I have a tendency to go pretty deep, intense, rough, and, generally, the subs I connect best with tend to be those who like to be pushed, challenged, learned inside and out, and experience that same level of intoxication I feel when you're really, truly hooked on someone. Some of the kinks on my list include: Bondage, impact play, orgasm control/torture (I'm definitely someone who would want to make you cum until you cry), degradation/humiliation/objectification, rules/protocol, obedience training, body worship, pet play, rough use, mental conditioning/hypnosis, watersports, among others.

Connection is pretty vital to me, and that's one of those ethereal things that's either there or it's not, so I certainly can't promise that spark with just anyone. But I'm always open to chat with people and see what might be there, so should anyone think they might be interested, please feel free to say hello.